Can I sleep with at least one guy before getting married? Or will GOD send me to hell for that?

Question

Mmmm...so what should I do?? It is really tempting!

Julia:
It is me. Thanks for the complement.

Julia:
It is me. Thanks for the compliment.

Izzit:
Not quite. But I am a little tipsy at this very moment. lol

i'm ok:
You are great! Thanks. I know you think I always end my sentences with "lol". So I will not disappoint you this time either! LOL

Answer 1

Hey there Rove,

I am a recovering Catholic. LOL! Raised in that religion since birth. I question all of organized religion.
Here's one reason: If there is a God.... and Jesus and Mohammed and Moses and whoever else you call a prophet or messenger of God..... were actually given their messages by God....why did he give them such different messages??
It's pretty obvious to me that this is all delusion in this context.

Here's another reason: You are Catholic I assume by the wording of your question?
So I was discussing religion one day with a very good older friend of mine who said to me ..."You know in the Catholic religion if Hitler had asked for forgiveness before his death for his sins by the teachings of the Catholic religion Hitler would be forgiven and find a place in the kingdom of God."
I thought about that quote for a long time.

I do believe there is 'something' or some reason that everything is everything...you know?
But I don't think it is a Supreme Being that we can comprehend. I think man created this scenario to provide order among chaos and governments relied on it to control the masses!

So basically I say do whatever you feel comfortable with. Always respect yourself and never indulge in anything you would be ashamed of people finding out about and you'll be fine!

Have an excellent weekend! Cheers!=)

Answer 2

Don't worry about GOD; worry about the guy.

First check the claws and paws; that will be the first contact with the enemy. Are his fingernails short and clean? Is the skin healthy, firm, and immaculate?

Then check the fangs. Are the lips, teeth, and tongue healthy? Observe everything carefully or regret it later.

Make sure that he has been circumcised. The foreskin can hide disease. And have him get a pre-marital health certificate, required in most states. Go with him to the doctor's offfice and then go directly to the motel.

Check for a vasectomy. There should be a surgical scar on either side of the testicles. Or go with him to the surgeon's office. You will then have to give him some time to recover.

Use the belt plus suspenders technique. He should use two condoms for safety. Put them on him yourself. Don't trust him to do the right thing.

Wear a diaphragm with a spermicide. You can't be too safe.

Check him for arms. Not left and right; guns or knives! Make sure you are the stronger of the two. Take karate lessons. Carry a concealed weapon. Choose a weak, teen-aged nerd or very old man - someone you can dominate.

You should be OK, unless you later regret not being a virgin.

Have fun!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

The sin debt of ALL of mankind has already been paid.... you will not go to hell for any sin... except the sin of rejecting God untill it is too late for you to change your mind....... if your Salvation is already assured then you will recieve your rewards in Heaven based on the good you do in life... so the more time you spend sin'n the less time you got to do good... but... if you have not yet come to God in The Way He prescribes and asked His forgivness... directly, not through some priest... in compleat and honest repentance... for all the sins you have commited... then you have not received God's free gift of Salvation and you are not going to make it to Heaven.

Answer 5

There are people who have made up all kinds of things. It would seem that they rarely look at what has already been said!

This is ONLY for the Heaven bound, or those who want to be:
17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. (John 3)

Answer 6

Sure, if you want to take the risk of that one guy giving you a disease, or making you pregnant, or destroying your reputation by telling lies (or half-truths) about you, or just breaking your heart, go for it. Of course, any of these could interfere with your goal of "getting married" but maybe you'll be one of the lucky ones.

As for God sending you to hell, he isn't sending you anywhere...hell is the final destination for all of us...whatever else people may think it is, hell is, at its root, the natural consequence of death.

Of course, disobeying God isn't a great way to go about asking him to make an exception to the natural law of death for you...but what's one more sin added to those you've already committed? I know I slept with at least one guy before I was married and while I paid (and am still paying) an earthly price for that mistake, God has forgiven me and given me the gift of eternal life. Your call...I just know that if I had it to do over again, I would choose to listen to God's advice about sex.

Answer 7

Why would you want to "pimp" yourself in the first place? It's not what it's cracked up to be. I did with my first wife and guess what....she's my EX wife, that's why I said my first wife. She turned out to be a ho and just got married for the tax bennies and being guiltless for going to the beddie. If you want to "horizontal" with someone other than the one you're going to marry I can almost guarantee you'll wind up an ex, with two kids, bills out the ears and possibly a mortgage you'll get stuck having to pay off in a bitter divorce battle....all for the sake of doing the "funky monkey" with someone else, risking disease and marrying someone you don't even have an honest relationship with.
Trust me, it's a living hell and a spiritual hell...so you get double for your trouble and that's even before you stand in judgment someday before God. Question for you is...Got Jesus?

Answer 8

Obviously you know that it is wrong otherwise I don't think you would have bothered to ask. Will God send you to Hell, Yes if you do not repent and turn back to Him before it is too late. I pray that God will till the soil of your heart allowing you to receive His wonderful grace, and if He has already, ma He give you the strength to resist the temptation. Amen

Answer 9

interesting question,,of the sexual nature,and you are a wonderful,hot,smart,beautiful lady in every way.first I want to say its best to seek lasting love first,many Asian lady,s are real virgins when they get married,my ex-wife was a virgin when we got married.with virgin in mind I say its overrated,but worth the wait.now on to the part about morals and sex,,I think its a must to do the dirty,s before you get married,,but,,engaged and in love first.now your question ,will God send to hell for pre marital sex,,I do believe ,,NO,,,not possible in any way.,,but I tell sweetie once you start the dirty,s its hard to stop...so yes you do what you feel to,,but you be good to yourself ....chow my friend,,enjoy your day,,god bless ,,freepress,,,p,s guys are always to say anything to get the sex,,remimber that,,,and don,t get your heart broken,,most guys anyway.chow supercutie...

Answer 10

That verse Ezeikel quoted...doesn't the rest of it go something like this?..."and such were you...but you have been made clean by the blood of the Lamb." ( I might have that mixed up with another verse and have it all wrong....tell me if I'm wrong) I just don't like to see quotes taken out of context. Just please check your Bible to see about this. P.S. I guess sleeping with somebody is okay...but why would you want to have sex with somebody you didn't want to marry? I think when God makes rules..it's for our own good...not to be mean.