So, I was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. New school year and he has mentioned that he wouldn't mind being with me on a purely sexual level. I'm not that kind of girl, and I said that the only chance of anything happening is if we were in a relationship again, but he won't budge. What's a way that I can end up being with him without having to lower my standards?
2007-09-14 17:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jenners 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if this guy isn't willing to budge it sounds like he just wants to get physical pleasure from you for free and get it from as many girls as he can, and not focusing his attention on 1 girl. If you are not interested in then i would suggest move on and tell him you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and nothing less!
2007-09-14 17:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants his sexual need taken care of until someone better comes along Jenners. Act like your taking interests in other guys, and make sure he sees this! A little twinge of jelousy goes a long way. He may discover he doesn't know what his got till it's gone. If he doesn't react to that.......you have your real answer!
2007-09-14 18:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can. This guy obviously doesn't care for you like you do for him. You deserve the whole package, don't cut yourself short. Any person that asks that of another is a loser, and you can find better.
2007-09-14 17:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Robin N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you to say yes because he will use you as a back up when some skank says no. Go get a real man, or at least make him work for it. Bling Bling!
2007-09-14 17:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by apl_saus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully there is no way, i hate to say it but guys that are like that should not even be on your radar. you need to havea guy that cares about you and wants to be with you not a guy that dates you then just wants to have sex with you, that not only shows the type of person he is but by you saying know it alway shows your self that you can do better then that. and you know it. good luck!
2007-09-14 17:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by jennrawson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It sounds like he's over you emotionally, and doesn't want anything more. Stay away from him.
2007-09-14 17:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly girl, ur not gonna win this one. hes using u. please dont overlook that. he doesnt se ur whole u (ur beaty and personality) he sees u sexualy.. and thats it. i kno u want him.. but hes not good enuf for u. dont lower urself, give other guys that wont use u a chance
2007-09-14 17:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by mandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋