Is it family, your religion, making money? For me it is wholeness... that's all I can share for now. Peace.
2007-09-14 14:43:50 · 31 answers · asked by NONAME 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I need to get this right before I go.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-09-14 14:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1) family 2) $
2007-09-14 21:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by What? Me Worry? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We should all pick jobs that we would love to do for the rest of our life as if there were no such thing as a difference in social status or paycheck. Anyways, religon and family is more important. God bless!
2007-09-14 22:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me its my religion. Because my religion is what I used to decided how I deal with family and making money, and all other aspects of life. So for me religion, like you, is wholeness.
2007-09-14 21:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's most important for me in the long is being well off enought to live without working for the rest of my life! Then, I can contemplate on life further, and maybe even help others! Well, I am keeping my fingers crossed...
2007-09-14 21:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace with God is the only peace you can find on earth. God is #1. Family comes 2nd, then career 3rd.
Wholeness requires peace with God. Nothing else will fill that "God-shaped vacuum" in your heart!
2007-09-14 22:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Winning my family for Christ and protecting them from the cruel, savage, and mostly God-less world we live in is my most important purpose.
2007-09-14 21:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness, compassion, understanding without sacrificing your happiness and livelihood. Being true to yourself and standing up for ppl who are wronged. Environmental responsibility, perseverance through hardship. Creating a better world ( i kno it sounds hokey) Making my son the best man he can be. Doing me without interfering in you doing you.
2007-09-14 21:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Robin C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is number one.
2007-09-14 21:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by MyMichelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humanity.
2007-09-14 21:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋