One or the other, just play along. No mixing the options =P
So no "Having kids would make me happy" answers.
2007-09-14 10:28:14 · 17 answers · asked by Megegie 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Some people apparently don't understand the question...
2007-09-14 10:39:04 · update #1
Kids are cool, but you don't have to have them to be happy
2007-09-14 10:52:28 · update #2
Note: I never said kids make your life lousy, nor did I imply it. It's just a simple question. A or B...gawd
2007-09-14 10:56:33 · update #3
happy life without kids I wouldnt want to make them miserable because im miserable.
2007-09-14 10:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Look, I've been seeing alot of your questions are about should women have kids, and would someone have a happy life with/ without kids etc. I think that it's YOUR decision whether you want them or not, and I think you should ignore what other people are expecting you to be or have.
-Whether or not you have them does Not make you any more or less of a woman, and yes Life can be great without Kids.
2007-09-14 19:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would like to have a happy life!
What is the sense of having children if you are unable to enjoy them?
And yes, I fully enjoy my children and could never live without them... but since I had to pick one or the other..........
2007-09-14 17:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by mornnglry 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're asking an impossible question. I've never met anyone who had a lousy life with kids.
2007-09-14 22:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am living Option A.
I said to a mate once, with three kids, after his second son had messed up: I feel sorry for you for having kids.
He said: I feel sorry for you for not having kids.
2007-09-14 18:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lousy life with kids. Hey just cause I'm not happy, doesn't mean I couldn't make it happy for them! Plenty of days that that very scenario happens. Luckily not too often!
Plenty of happy crack head parents are not raising happy or healthy children. Ignorance is bliss, remember?!
2007-09-14 17:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by quirky 5 · 3⤊ 4⤋
there is no happiness in life without kids...but then there are no kids without life...so that means a life isnt anything unless
you have kids...whether its lousy or happy...you have both whether you have kids or not...so what is life without kids and
what is life with kids...because that lousy life will be fullfilled when those lousy kids have kids..and they can decide what
type of life to lead...or go without kids and maybe be happy
for a while until your life gets lousy and you start to think..i might as well have kids cuz my life is lousy and maybe kids will makemy life happier...so just have 1 kid and you can have
a happy life when the kid isnt home and a lousy life when the kid is home..but make sure you explain to your kid why your
life is lousy one day and happy another day..its not the kids
fault...
zoom
2007-09-14 17:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 6⤋
I would rather live a happy life without kids. Of course, its much easier to be happy without kids than with them.
2007-09-14 17:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Apathy 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
There is no lousy life if you have kids..they are the worlds greatest gift
even on the worst of days when your 3 month old laughs at your ..or when your 9 month old smiles when you walk it eh door, or your toddler runs over to give you big hugs and kisses when you get home, or your son catches the fly ball in the last inning winning the big little league game, or your daughter gets the star role in the school play (etc) you will forget all about your troubles and bask in lifes simplest joys which makes the rest of the world very very unimportant
Hope this helps you realize life is not about money cars and TVs its about love, simple pure sweet love
2007-09-14 17:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Finchy 4 · 4⤊ 8⤋
Happy life without kids definately. I'd rather be happy than sad lol, so...yeah =)
2007-09-14 17:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Fersureee 5 · 6⤊ 4⤋