My fiance has smoked weed for a long time now, and at times hes mentioned quitting but he jus keeps smoking everyday. h is originally from Bosnia and went through Bosnian/Serbian War back in '93 with his parents and 3 other brothers. Being with him for so long, Ive come to understand that his family is always real high-drama [more than the average american family anyway]. Im not too sure if they all suffer from P.T.S.S or what, but I understand his excuse for smoking. However, I feel I would be of more help if I could give him some thorough reasons why it's only doing bad things to him, other than polluting his lungs, or losing memory...Can anyone out there help me, in explanation to what else its doing/can do to him over time? I want explain things to him that hes probably never heard about Marijuana...PLZ help quick!
2007-09-14 10:21:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Unfortuantely he's not likely to give up smoking weed unless he really wants to. He is unlikely to care or believe you, regardless of what logical arguments you present to him.
You'll have to make the decison whether you can spend the rest of your life with him and his "habitat". If not, it would be best to tackle the situation now....
2007-09-14 13:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by lpdhcdh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand his excuse also and it has nothing to do with his family. He wants to smoke it and will continue to do so until caught. You either need to accept or reject his thinking. You will never change his mind so get used to living with it and the circumstances that come with it.
2007-09-14 10:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out now. If his smoking is bothering you now, imagine how bad it will be in 10 years. Crap job, slob. you'll be supporting him and the kids and his pot smoking.
2007-09-14 11:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by California Street Cop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hiding his house/car keys from him, as well as other things.
If he thinks he is "losing it," he may slow down a bit.
2007-09-14 10:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by MenifeeManiac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋