My girlfriend has a boyfriend but she keeps fantasizing and masturbating about his brother. I told her that is wrong. She tells me as long as she doesn't take it to another level. Tell he what you think?
2007-09-14 06:09:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mommy M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is wrong with me. I don't have the verse but I beleive it says in the bible that wanting it in your heart is just the same as doing it. Like if I wanted to kill someone, I mean I really wanted to kill someone in my heart, it would be the same thing as actually killing the person. Just like with your friend, if she really wants in her heart to do something with her boyfriends brother, than it is just the same as actually doing something with her boyfriends brother.
I hope that made sense, I hope your friend will choose the right path...
God bless, and have a wonderful day!
2007-09-14 06:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is disgusting and its a cry for desperateness, but juss ask her that if she likes the guys brother to dump the one she is goin out with , and go out with his brother, thats all this really isn't much of a big problem its just disturbing
2007-09-14 13:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think she has much control over who she is sexually attracted to. As long as she doesnt actually have sex with him I cant say this is wrong.
2007-09-14 13:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says it is cheating just to think about another man.
2007-09-14 13:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by shellbell1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously more interested in the brother.
2007-09-14 13:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow I thnk its wrong...but that is emotional decision...
some things just don't seem right....
Its funny because most of the time its the guy trying to rationalize ....this time its the girl.....
2007-09-14 13:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cant help it.
I am engaged, but I had fantasies about my boss for a while. It's natural... as long as she dosent act on these feelings.
2007-09-14 13:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by lovepink317537 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see nothing wrong with that. Their is no problem with thinking about whomever you want to while you are playing with yourself.
2007-09-14 13:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so wrong. that is so unfair to her bf. ask her how she would feel if he was doing the thinking about her sister or you or her mom or anybody really close to her
2007-09-14 13:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her not to tell her boyfriend or he has the right to strangle her
2007-09-14 13:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋