It has recently come to my attention that a lot of people judge before they know someone. The look at the outer package and make their determination before ever considering what someone's heart might be like. What a shame....
For example... she's beautiful and voluptous.... must be dumb, trampy or even worse.... doesn't love God! Wow!
Another example: He' short, pudgy and bald.... must be a looser, bad lover...... unworthy of love! Another WOW!
It just amazes me that people would be so quick to judge over such shallow things..... how about you!
2007-09-14 05:28:22 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must be one of the shallow ones because I did think that you were very beautiful, but dumb & trampy never came nto my mind. I've always found you to be a very intellegent woman!!! Worthy of my attention here on q/a!!! Long before yesterdays avatar appearance!!!
2007-09-14 11:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To judge someone is wrong. What you see, or hear from a person is not the total package, A person must know the whole package before they make any judgements, even then its a bad thing..
2007-09-14 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all do it. unfortunately. i do let the person know when i realize i had them figured wrong. first impressions are powerful.
i know i personally do it because women have hurt me, and i dont want to be hurt again. i try to judge what kind of person they are before getting to know them. it actually works quite well, but when it fails, im way off.
if you posted this because of me, wow .sorry. didnt know it upset you that much.
edit - "happyfeet". she is not for sale. i tried. she will not have a problem with predators, she does not release enough info to find out who, or where ,she is. i tried.
and, when you see cleavage while walking down the street, do you give them the same speech ?
what is the difference between seeing it here, and in person?
if you were built like a male stripper, you would walk around showing off what you had too.
2007-09-14 12:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be beneficial, but it's definitely human nature. I think people judge quickly because it's easier, and you have to evaluate your world somehow. Realistically, do you think you could get through life NEVER judging anyone? I doubt it. It's just sad that people take it to the opposite extreme and quickly judge almost everyone.
Hope this recent barrage of (apparently) personal attacks isn't getting you down. After all, it's only Yahoo Answers!
2007-09-14 12:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gulity. But I keep it to myself of course. I can't help it if when it turns out to be true though.
We all do it, but it's those who bluntly voice their opinions upon others, who they have seen for the first time ever, knowing it will hurt them. They offer no advice or encouragement, just run ya down. Their motive?, a stupid little chuckle. They niether need their heads stomped on, or mouths kicked in.
Not worth it really. I can say something real nasty to someone, and I could unknowingly, hand them the rope to hang themselves.
So, if you see someone who looks like they down in the dumps, unless you offer good news, advice or help, walk the hell on by.
2007-09-14 12:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Doughboys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you're awesome!
But I know what you mean, I'm guilty of judging and being judged myself. Unfortunately, the only thing we can change about the situation is ourselves, and our reaction to such judgement. They don't know you. And your perception of yourself is all that matters.
2007-09-14 14:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be judgemental!! I agree with the Cowboy (Hopefool Texan)...You seem pretty cool! :) Cheer up!
2007-09-14 13:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER judge anyone, even after you get to know them.
2007-09-14 12:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah im back....and its not necessarily just your questions i dont like.....i dont like you. you portray yourself as if you are for sale. you ask questions you know are sexually arrousing. like you need attention or something. if you need it that bad, then obviously there is a problem, or you wouldnt be looking for it on the internet. and if i am wrong about you, i appologize, im just seeing what your putting on here. and if i see it, then i know the sexual preditors see it. if you dont want trouble then you should be more careful about what the content of your questions are....
2007-09-14 16:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by happyfeet 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No one , I,m sembl and want friend ship only not love or sex , to know evry thing abut ather ,,,,,,,,,
2007-09-14 16:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mohamed E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋