I had some people in my life even myself can be so critical of things and I prayed that I can changed into a humble person and lighthearted. My heart had been wounded and hurt and still heaing and processing of being joy , love, etc. I am trying to get things resolved and forgiven them .. I don't want to be bitter or other people being bitter ..
2007-09-14 05:27:49 · 29 answers · asked by ☃FrostyGal♪♬♪ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
it is good to be critical of things...we are not to judge...but we can be critical!
2007-09-14 05:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are well on your way to conquering the pain hurt and anger that you've suffered. It is a process, so allow yourself to go through the process. Take it one step at a time. Because you desire to stop it, you will. I've done that too. I still have one person I can't seem to stop being critical of and I dislike that about myself so, I am trying. It is a challenge because I have to be with this person each and every day. They wounded my heart, too, but the situation dictates I be there. I feel God put me there to hopefully rub off as a good influence for this person's ability to make bad choices, rather than for me to feel and be abused and hurt by them. I have learned to pity this person, but I still find ways to be critical of them.
So, I am taking these steps and I can see that you are too. I cheer you on to the end when you finally conquer evil by doing good.
Blessings to you.
2007-09-14 05:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Holly Carmichael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preying for something wont get you anywhere unless you take it by the balls and do it yourself. think about it in the sense that if you where to do the things that people have done to you to them would you want to be forgiven? I'm shore you would. as far as getting your heartbroken.. Stop wearing it on your sleeve. I mean if you where to take your time in a relationship and find out who the person really is and not fall for them right of the bat then maybe you wont get hurt so much. as far as being light hearted and humble person... Try to meditate. sit in a field of flowers or something close your eyes and breath. clear your head. As time goes on you will feel More as one with nature and the surroundings around you. Take some moments out of your day and breath. don't let the little things get to you. it's not worth it and you will soon find that life is to short to let it bother you. good luck blessed be shy
2007-09-14 05:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you I am dealing with this myself, I think you have to just continue to pray ask God to soften your heart and help you when you are feeling anxious or bitter and upset about a situation. Personally I have been affected by this a lot lately and I believe that it is Satan trying to get at us so that we will "loose it" and not turn it over to God. Continue to pray my sister and keep the faith. God is always there to help!! ;) Have a blessed day!
2007-09-22 04:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by clst_edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy to stop being critical. Somehow we feel that it elevates us.
I know - I had to do the same thing. My prejudice - critical judgement - was overwhelming and underlying all my relationships. I knew I would never be happy until I stopped judging others.
I learned how to observe others in the way I expect that God views us. It required faith, commitment and determination to overcome my inclination to be critical.
But it was worth it!
2007-09-22 05:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you dont mind that I look up to you. You sound strong and kind hearted. I am on that same spiritual path but I keep falling off and giving in to bitterness and letting the past overwhelm me. Good luck in your quest for healing. May you be happy and whole.
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2007-09-14 05:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How To Iron Out Your Differences" Disagreement=we clam up(1 Kings 21:4and 10) Blow Up=Watch what you say(1Kings 19:2 Wise Up=We don't know everything.Keep your anger control(Let nothing separate us from the love of God,be wise until you know the facts,cool down before you regret what you are about to say,apologize when you're wrong,we will not always agree on the same thing and we will always see things different,we are different people.
2007-09-21 09:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by God Fearing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not any humans place to judge. As long as you aren't then if they do they will be judged on that! We all have our faults and some people just think that pointing out peoples faults is helping them. When it is just judging and it is not going to do anything but hurt as you have seen and felt! Instead you just use the correct way in helping people instead of judging like those people did. You just be there for people and be their friend.
2007-09-14 05:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being critical and do this:
Create Your Relationship with Our Creator
and have UnConditional Love and Peace in Your Life.
2007-09-14 05:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've also learned not to give my opinion unsolicited, particularly those opinions that are negative and critical and will help no cause. If positive and I know that the receiving end will appreciate what I have to say, I say it.
2007-09-14 05:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn through acceptance, of yourself for the imperfect wonderful human that you are,
and the acceptance that not every person in this world
is kind
or will like you
or will not try to hurt you.
it's God's plan, you see, every person, every thing is a lesson, and this lesson is compassion.
without people or things that hurt us, how would we ever learn that.
make a healthy place for it in your life and then, simply, move on.
good luck.
2007-09-14 05:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋