I'm seeing this great guy for /about 7 weeks. We see each other on weekends because of our jobs. He has been a perfect gentleman, not trying one thing. We have snuggled, kissed, etc., but nothing sexual. We talked about a date that I had with this one jerk. I told this recent guy that I just wasn't ready for sex with that old guy. The problem is. I am so ready with the guy I am dating. How do I let him know I am ready without coming on too strong or turning him off IF he isn't ready for it? It is driving me crazy. I have a feeling he wanted for us to get close first instead of jumping in the sack right away. He asked me if I wanted to go on vacation in Feb. I said sure and laughed. He then said I had to date him until at least Feb and asked if I could hang. I said of course I could. That gave me an indication that he felt we were dating not just friends. How do I start things rolling? Will I turn him off?
2007-09-14 04:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by Paula D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think so.. things are positive both ends.. just start dating him n get to know him well if dats wot he wnts. then go to d vacation n enjoy.. :)
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2007-09-14 04:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by AYOOZe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would say dress a little more sexy fore him. Put on a mini skirt and a sexy top. Go on a date and flirt with him. Then at the end of the evening go back to your place or his and do the snuggling and kissing thing. Then while you are kissing slowly place your hand between his legs and slide it up to hispenis. I think he will respond to all of that. Basically what you are doing is making the first move. There are many guys who really like that.
2007-09-14 11:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rodgman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, you broke Rule # 1. Never discuss old dates or lovers. That little conversation may have confused him somewhat.... maybe he wants to make certain that you are ready with him. You know how to do this when you get him alone. A woman doesn't have to do much to get a guy interested. Let your hands do the talking.
He definitely has sights on you if he's already planning for February.
2007-09-14 12:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will turn him off if he's not ready. Even in this modern times, there are many guys who don't like aggressive woman, they want to be the hunters. So, if you are not absolutely sure he wants you to take the inisiative, then don't do it. Yo will lose him for sure. Good luck
2007-09-14 12:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it the natural way, start makin out and see where it goes. Give him those seductive eyes, you know, things you do when you're ready to be intimate. He's a GUY! Chances are he's not gonna say no.
2007-09-14 11:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by SiC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait till the right moment. You start snuggling, kissing, making out, eventually it will get into sex. or you could cuddle with him start kissing him. And so on.......so you don't have to wait until the right moment. But if it's driving you crazy, cuddle, kiss, and eventually you'll have sex with him
2007-09-14 11:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by loverforever150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, you think snuggling and kissing, etc. _isn't_ sexual? Funny definitions you've got. I'd say you're well on your way; give it time - even the most cautious of us eventually take the bait..
2007-09-14 11:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by John R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're kissing, get really into it so he knows you're interested in more. Be a little aggressive - maybe kiss him first, sit on top of him, etc. He'll get the hint.
2007-09-14 11:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Trip in February is like his honeymoon , only a few months away.
2007-09-14 11:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really has feelings for you it will not turn him off. Generally, when a person has feelings for someone they want to be intimate with them. It's natural.
2007-09-14 11:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by JLB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋