2007-09-14 03:54:15 · 62 answers · asked by champ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Funny because I just so happen to be 33 years old! Now if I were single would I date a 21 year old? If by dating you mean taking a 21 year old out to a nice dinner, cocktails afterwards, then banging her brains out ever chance I got? Absolutely! Would I ever expect to have a serious relationship with a 21 year old? Absolutely NOT! I would enjoy the ride for as long as I could until she found something else fun and exciting to do.
2007-09-14 03:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am a 33 year old woman. I have had a couple of 21-23 year olds ask me out. They were fun to hang around with, but we are just at different places in our life. I can't imagine a long term relationship like that working- unless the 21 year old was very mature and the two people really clicked. Age really shouldn't matter if everything else works, it's just a lot harder to match up when you're that far apart in age.
2007-09-14 04:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women mature much more quickly than guys (in most cases) so if the 21 year old were a woman and the 33 year old were a man it would probably work a little more than if the woman were older.
2007-09-14 04:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by bravokardia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I don't like the idea; It makes me feel uncomfortable and insecure.
I'd be ok with a few years age gap, but not 10.
Having said that, it does work for some people.
The fact is, a 21 year old is an adult.
But, what about what their parents' expectations?
What about their own dreams?
Are they really mature enough?
What about having children?
And later on in life? Will they go for a someone their age?
For me, it's a no.
But if you've found love and happiness, then good for you.
2007-09-14 04:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, age shouldn't be an issue.... especially at that age. I guess it wouldn't be so good only if the 21 yr old was VERY immature.... in which case I don't think it would work. I dated a 28 yr old when I was 17 and we stayed together for 5 years... and right now I'm dating a man 17 yrs older than me (I'm 30 now so I'm not a baby anymore) and we get along great!
2007-09-14 04:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlikely...should be a lot of difference in maturity levels, where they are in Life, and such. A 21 yr old is just learning what it is to be an adult, a 33 yr old is watching middle age approach.
2007-09-14 03:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... depends, really, on a lot of things. I dated a guy that was 26 and I was 31. It ended up not being worth it because he wasn't real mature. The sex wasn't even that great in the beginning.
I kind of prefer someone a little older than me. I'm 34 and my boyfriend is 40. It's so much smoother, better, loving, etc. My personal experience.
Give it a shot though. You never know what could become of it. He could turn out to be your soulmate.
Good luck!
2007-09-14 04:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I'd go that young. It's bad enough that I'm 32 and dating a 28 almost 29 year old. I guess it's just the level of comfort you have with each other.
2007-09-14 04:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by music lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke it off with a guy that was 10 years my senior. I had to get used to people looking at us like he was my dad. Plus he acted like he was 45 instead of 33. Eitherway, we were on 2 different wave lengths and unless it's just sex, I wouldn't prescribe that you waste your time with this situation. Now on the other hand, if you know it's just sex and you and your partner have the guidelines established, ride that bull like never before!!!!
2007-09-14 04:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30's and the biggest mistakes I make are dating anyone not at least in their 30's. NO offense to the 20 something years olds out there.
2007-09-14 03:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by hellvet2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋