2007-09-14 03:47:21 · 6 answers · asked by Harriet S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that men are responsible for making women "Scare" them...
seriously...
how many times do you see a man say that a woman is beautiful and they feel the need to talk to them..
and then... nothing happens because they were too scared..
i think it's the man's fault for not building up the gut to talk to them..
they make the women's beauty intimidate them...
and Mr. Burrito is right too
2007-09-14 03:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are afraid of rejection, just like women are. There might be several reasons why men are afraid of you. Since I do not know you, I will just cover a few of the more common reasons.
If a man thinks that you can do better than him (I.E.: that you are out of his league), then he won’t bother asking you out, because he assumes that sooner or later you will leave him for a better guy. If you are better looking than him, or if you make more money, or if you are more popular, etc., then he assumes that you will eventually look down on him and go find a better man. So he doesn’t try.
If you want strangers to approach you, it helps if you look social and friendly. If you smile, and are seen talking and chatting to a few different people, then people will assume that you are a friendly person and they will come over and say “hi” (But note: if you are always surrounded by a large crowd of adoring fans , people might assume that you are too popular, and thus too busy, to meet anyone new.). If you walk around with a frown on your face, and you never talk to anyone else, guys will assume that you are a b*tch, and that you are alone for a good reason, and they won’t come over.
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On a side note, what do you mean by “independent”? Some people use the word independent to mean “busy”. No one wants to date a person who is too busy to see him. How busy is too busy? If he has a lot more free time in his schedule than you do, he might assume that you are too busy for him (But a girl who has too much free time is a turn off too, because it implies neediness).
2007-09-14 04:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A womans independence is not the problem. Men just think that some women do or want too much, given certain situations.
If a woman is scarring a man away then you need to look at the woman and ask yourself; " what is she doing? "
2007-09-14 04:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to some extent with Mr. Burrito. Many men find a woman's independence an attractive quality. I mean, honestly, what man wants to be with a needy clingy woman?
2007-09-14 03:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman scares away men, it's because she's a *****, not "independent"
2007-09-14 03:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Men who are afraid of independent women aren't worth having anyways. what you wanna do is how you come off to a guy. There are a lot of girls I meet that i would love to talk to, but have a bad aura about them, the seem b^*^&y, mean or stuck up. even shyness can come off as stuck up. When I meet a girl like this, it makes me not wanna talk to them. B^*^$yness is the biggest turn off. I also meet a lot of attractive people, but have two things, one they don't stand out to me, and they don't seem to have anything going for them. try standing out more and show you have somthing going for you
2007-09-14 04:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Gah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋