I just recently begin a cohabiting relationship with my girlfriend, who is also my boss at work. I am wearing a chastity belt for the moment and she has the keys to my belt.
She wants me to have sexual abstinence for a year by wearing the chastity belt to prove my love to her and as an assurance that I will not leave her and we will register as civil partners after a year. I would really love to but I am not sure whether it is possible to deny myself from any intercourse for a year? Is it possible for a 27 years old girl like me to pleasure her everynight while I am securely locked in a chastity belt? I love her and willing to do it for her but I am not sure about whether I am able to stand a year without sex.
2007-09-14 03:39:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop her on the spot. Having a chastity belt should've died in the middle ages... I think that someone actually putting one on you is a little bit over the top (aka. psycho).
I can stay 1 year without sex if my partner requested it but don't knock on masturbation, if they took that away then how are you gonna be able to stand so long? naw it's not worth the hassle for you.
2007-09-14 03:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.J3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She does not want you to prove your love to her. She wants you to prove you will be her slave. This is not about love, it is about control. This girl is sick and you need help, professional help.
You, know this or you would not have posted the question! You know this is not right.
She wants assurances that you will not leave? What is she doing in return for you to prove that she will not be the one to leave?
No one has this assurance. No one!
Is sex the only aspect that defines love for her? Has she been controlling who you see and what you do?
I would get out and re-evaluate this relationship while you still can. Change jobs. Perhaps int he distant future you can be a couple but it sounds as if right now, she is not ready for a loving relationship. She wants a pet on a leash.
2007-09-22 07:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by laterally (later in an alley) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need a reaal y well hung man to get you all hot and set you straight as to who is supposed to be having sex with who....she seems to be more overdue then you in that department. Take that belt off and replace it with a strap on and tell her what the NEW deal is.
2007-09-21 23:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boss lost her mind. I think she's insecure also. I've been abstinent 7 years (a pure life in God's name) so it can be done.
How about this: Your boss also wears one for the whole year and you have the keys. Then you can unlock each others love together.
2007-09-14 10:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what is your girlfriend doing to prove her love for you.
Don't you know that most office affairs don't work out? And if you have been sexually active,I doubt you will be able to a year without relief.
2007-09-22 01:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So She can get some but You can't get any??? Does this seems "fair" to you?? This doesn't seem like a proof of Love it sounds evil to me.
2007-09-14 10:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how that's fair. If you have to wear one, then she should, too. Sounds like she has control issues, and I would be weary.
2007-09-22 00:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by kendi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what does she do for you? is she wearing one as well? this could very well be sexual torture. to stimulate one partner but no relief? it isnt right and you shouldnt stand for it.
2007-09-14 10:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a locksmith and get a 2nd. key made.
2007-09-22 09:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Maka 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to feel yourself up all the time? Bless this technology that allows you to have these problems. Envision this world in war, chaos, and your damn sex drive will be the last thing on your mind.
2007-09-14 10:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Corvus 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋