I dont want to straight out ask him...and i dont want to just randomly initiate that....any ideas?
2007-09-14 03:00:04 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh, just pick up the phone, call him and get busy. Do you need flash cards for this? If you're not close and comfortable enough with a guy to even discuss it, how do you think you'll come off actually doing it. It think it's a bad idea on your part.
2007-09-14 03:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
start it off about I had this really great erotic dream about you two, if he ask, tell it was very sexual... if he is responsive( Which I do not know any red blood male that would not be) you are in have your phone sex tell him what you be wanting to to, but just put it in a dream format. SO of the best call and email I had in Iraq where started that way... Keeps up the Moral...
MO
2007-09-14 03:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by MOs fishin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you have a friend who confessed to you having phone sex with his boyfriend. Maybe he'll get the idea and will be the one to initiate it with you.
2007-09-14 03:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by doktan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i don't think that straight up would be the best thing to do, because you never know what might happen.
If that were me, I would try joking around about the subject? Somehow try to talk about something that could lead into it, get onto the topic, and start talking about it. THEN be a little straight up, but don't be too blunt. :D
Good Luck!
2007-09-14 03:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe start talking about sex with him and how you liked it when he did this and that and he'll pick up from there and you'll both get all hot and then the rest will happen. or start telling him how next time yall have sex you want him to do a certain thing. just bring up yalls sex life and it should go from there i would think
2007-09-14 03:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by stt143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could rent a video that has a sex scene. When he calls you have it playing really loudly. When he asks what youre watching tell him its just a movie and this couple is having phone sex. See how he reacts.
2007-09-14 03:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not write it in a letter.. I know it sounds old fashioned but, it will get "rise" out of him and he can respond... You can even put that in a fantasy.. I find it easier to write it out than to chat about it.. Plus, it saves the embarassment if someone hears you.. You can take some written words from some steamy novel... Good luck
2007-09-14 03:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make little sly dirty comments on the phone not in your face but subtle and see his reaction. Say something that you know will get him going and I'm sure it'll go from there. I dont think you should ask him though as it will make it a bit awkward. good luck
2007-09-14 03:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should TOTALY just randomly initiate it! you know he wants it. lol. but seriously, just randomly mention something really sexy, like a new pair of panties you bought (even if you didnt). i'm sure the convo can lead from there!
2007-09-14 03:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with him on the phone get him turned on go from there. Good luck and have fun lol
2007-09-14 03:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Roberto R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋