Should I move on seeing as she's already got 'The Big Man' in her life?
2007-09-13 21:17:33 · 29 answers · asked by Skaggy says: 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You sould be so lucky that she might talk to you.
She might convince you that you are lost
2007-09-13 21:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by kenny p 7 · 6⤊ 5⤋
There is a common misconception in Christianity.
One of the main reasons is that some zealous Christians are stricter than the majority.
Having a boy/girlfriend AND being a Christian is perfectly fine.
Therefore, in all right, there isn't much of a reason to let her go. Especially if you're feelings are true enough.
NOTE:
Some Christians may oppose my answer. Though, I'm confident to say that majority don't. If she's dedicated to God, she'll know how far she can go.
2007-09-13 21:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mary T, let's be fair!
How do you feel about giving aid to MARRIED women who are having their fifteenth child? This commonly happens in Brooklyn with Hassidic Jews.
I worked in a clinic in Detroit where a Muslim woman was provided a caretaker for her children once a week because she went psycho one day and left her child standing outside the clinic. She couldn't handle the stress of so many children.
We now have on trial Warren Jeffs, a Mormon, who is a polygamist and accused rapist. He has fathered many, many children and all of them are getting government aid.
We are talking about the dregs of society. Milkers of the system. Let's blame the system that provides the aid, not any particular religion, for we can see that ALL religions are taking part in the corruption. Don't believe me? Go stand outside any clinic in any neighborhood in any city in this country and you will see that I am right. Mooches come in all flavors and sizes.
2007-09-13 22:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Fly on the Wall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not a Christian and do not see yourself as ever being open to that possibility then YES you should move on. Find someone who has the same or similar belief system as you, just as she should find someone who has the same or similar belief systems as her. That person can encourage you in your way of being encouraged, and the man for her will encourage her in the Christian way of being encouraged.
2007-09-13 21:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Big Man Rules. I would persue the girl, you can lean a lot from christian girls.
2007-09-13 21:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
100000000000000% ...Y E S.
You have no idea the vast degree of heartache and headache you will save EACHOTHER if you just stay away.
She shouild know better to not be unequally yoked regardless.
Just giving you fair warning; u asked~ I told.
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2007-09-13 21:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you firm in your beliefs, like you will never consider to believe in God if you don't already? If you are an atheist till the day you die, than it probably isn't a good idea. But honestly you can be saved so only God knows, so we cannot tell you what to do. If she is saved and prays to God and asks what to do He will show her.
2007-09-13 21:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know that you're just being a smart alec, but I'll answer in case anyone is really interested.
If she's a mature Christian, she is told in scripture that she is not to bond with a non-believer. It has nothing to do with her relationship with God directly, but that she is supposed to be part of a godly household and needs a man of God to complete the equation.
2007-09-13 21:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by SDW 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Christians and non-Christians should not date. They are too far apart in values and beliefs; plus the Bible tells us not to marry outside our faith.
"Should a Christian date or marry an unbeliever?"
http://www.carm.org/questions/yoked.htm
2007-09-13 21:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Rella 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you wanna rip those cheeks you will probably have to wait until you two get married. So if you wanna date a pretty girl you have a crush on with out being able to tap that azz, then go for it! Actually, go for it anyways! some Christian girls are really sluts. If she doesn't give up that sweet punanny then let her go!
2007-09-13 21:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Maybe God's tapping on your shoulder man. Don't tune Him out. Christian women make the best wives, you know?
2007-09-13 21:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋