i wanna ask a guy for his number tommorow...
i mean im a pretty blunt person and will be like - "he we should hang out some time, whats your number" or something upon that sort..
is it weird if a girl asks a guy for their number?
and any tips on when i ask?
2007-09-13 16:49:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have never asked a guy for his number. Recently, a very handsome guy casually took my cell phone and programed his number into my phone, while we talked as I watched him. I was very flattered. I have a g/f who is very bold in her approach toward guys that she likes. She's very popular with boys; I have learned a lot from her, let me tell you!! This is what she would do. She would make eye contact, and say in a somewhat childlike and maybe coy way, "wanna hang out with me sometime? and then before he could answer, turn and walk away. That way, it doesn't put him on the spot, lets him know you are interested but he'll have to do something about it if he wants you, (a challenge to him). That will get him stirred up, thinking about you, and wondering why he never noticed you before. He will be intrigued with you and probably won't get any rest until he sees you again. Which is a g-o-o-d thing!
2007-09-13 17:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I've seen this a lot with 14-year-old kids --first off its not the end of the world if you don't have a girl at 14. --Second there is a difference between wanting a girlfriend and wanting to get laid . If its the ladder of the two then well idk. so for a number just start a conversation with her and make sure everything is going good when all of a sudden you have to leave (this is key) make sure its mid conversation then ask her for her number. so you can finish the conversation on a later time. if you know the girl, then just ask her. today everyone gives out there phone number. no big deal. don't just ask out random girls. get to know her first then after that point just ask her. if you don't like that approach or you don't think it will work then start off with large get togethers (football games, parties) then start making the group your with get smaller and smaller until you get to the point where going to the movies with her is natural. the kiss well just be natural if you feel like it will happen then go for it but be aware it might not happen theres no real trick to that one. unless you say "you have something in your teeth can i get it out with my tongue." but that only works on sluts. god i love sluts so i did you a favor, can you please tell me what the **** is a squeaker
2016-04-04 19:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. No. It is not weird. If this was pre 70s I was say yes. But now days every thing is backwards.
Tips: If I was you. I would ask hem out to like eat, bolwing are some where like that (Some where he likes). Then at the end ask hem for it. I would feel like hay this girl asked me to go out with her to _____. she realy know me. And I would give out my number. (That is the kind of woman I would wont.)
Good Luck.
2007-09-13 17:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when a girl asks a guy for his number, it makes him feel really good about himself. Believe it or not, we tend to lack a lot of self esteem because we get rejected by women so easily, and it's hard to find someone that likes you back. Just be blunt with him, trust me, he'll like it. ~Ricky~
2007-09-13 16:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird at all. I've done it a few times straight up like you said. "Hey we should go for coffee or hang out sometime. Can I get your number?" And I got dates out of it. One of which eventually led to my marriage. ;)
2007-09-13 16:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Renia_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird at all...I never thought I'd have the nerve but I did it once and it was no big deal. I did the casual "hey, we gotta hang out, can I get your number?" And he gave it over without hesitation. Good Luck!
2007-09-13 16:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think its weird, some guys don't have the confidence to even approach a girl they like, but instead of asking for his number write yours on a piece of paper and give it to him and say "call me some time"
2007-09-13 16:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by chris k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I love it when girls ask me for my number. Sometimes us guys are a bit shy (even if we don't show it). He may be relieved and jump at the opportunity to engage more. You never know right?
2007-09-13 16:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by koa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt weird, it shows you have confidence. just act casual and work it into your conversation. if your hanging out and about to leave be like wow today was really fun- we should hang out sometime if he agrees or says yeah we definitly should you should be ok lemme have your number and ill call you
good luck!!!! :)
2007-09-13 16:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird. Some guys do. Mostly it's older guys of past generations that would think it's weird. Most younger guys wouldn't.
2007-09-13 16:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋