as addition to what my last post said, i do show her shes special, i clal her, buy her things, show her i care, every day, she just says i get annoyig and she needs her alone time, when i found out she was tlaking to him i confronted her a month ago and she said she didnt know if we were goina get back togeather so she didnt wanna be hurt by finding someone else and it was over and done with, should i break up with her and see what she does? but i cant loose her shess my life i love her to death for real, and i dont iknow wht to do if i break upw ith her theres a chance shell forget about me and find someone else rather realize how much she loves me, hence the fact that my plan might backfire, i dont know what to do.. i just dont know if i should confront her about him over her house that i didnt know about. or let it go.. problem is she still says im annoying and i dont loeave her alone.. i just wanna be with her and be happy, i tried talking, buying her stuff, telling her, HELP
2007-09-13 16:41:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have an obsession with this girl, and you're smothering her with attention that she doesn't particularly appreciate. You can't make someone have the same feelings you do, and by persisting, you'll only drive her further away. Give her the space she needs. She may or may not decide to see you again, but it's better to know now than later. Find someone else who is more receptive to your attentiveness and treats you with the same affection and attention. You deserve it... Good luck!
2007-09-13 16:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you need to man up and stop crying over her. You seem like a pushover, and way too sensitive. A woman wants a man that she cant take advantage of, and that's not insecure. Give her some space, if she wants you she'll come back once she realizes you wont run every time she calls.
2007-09-13 23:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh so you do buy her stuff it sounded like you were treat'n her bad cuz you said you picked your friends over her and stuff.sry.well if she keeps say'n your annoying her i would not say anything this happened when you to broke up right?if you don't want to lose her then don't break up with her i would sit down and talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.i would say give her space but not to much so she cant go with another guy.you to are together right now?maybe you should ask her do you want to be with me? and see what shes says its not nice to tell your bf there annoying you seems kinda strange?im kinda lsot about whats gonig on i thin i know but dont have all the facts?but i hope it works out good luck<3
oh and it sounds like shes take u 4granted like u did to her most girls like it when you buy them flowers for no reason?
2007-09-14 00:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by vanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋