When dating or looking for a long-term relationship, would it be deal breaker if the dude had been divorced twice by the age of 28? Would the circumstances of the divorces factor in?
2007-09-13 16:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by kick in the teeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say take things nice and slow. Always be honest upfront when you start to feel serious for some girl. If it's meant to be... the girl will understand. However understand that a girl may see this as something is wrong with you. Just have open comunication with that person
2007-09-13 17:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by loving_angels07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the circumstances of the divorces factor in for sure...
however, its depend on the girl you date or looking for a long-term relationship. We are living in the open-minded world now so your problem is not really a problem if you know how to handle it!
Good luck!
2007-09-13 16:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a deal breaker and yes the circumstances would be important. It would also keep me from rushing into anything for a good long while with this person.
2007-09-13 16:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily a deal-breaker, but there would have some significant evidence of personal growth and change in the guys life since the last divorce. And honestly, it would take me a while to trust him.
2007-09-13 16:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the circumstances would factor in.
I would give the guy a chance, but I would have to know what happened in the divorces.
2007-09-13 16:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice by the age of 28?
RED FLAG!
2007-09-13 16:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nicey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes!! I could see 1 times but 2x's. Honestly that would be a huge red flag. Sorry
2007-09-13 16:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twice by the age of twenty just means you rushed into things. i wouldn't hold that against a guy. but kids involved might make it a different story.
2007-09-13 16:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it would be a deal breaker but it would definitely make me more cautious with him.
2007-09-13 16:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was still in my 20's it might scare me a little bit but I would definitely listen to the reason's behind them.
2007-09-13 16:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Desiderata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋