help! whats the best way ?

Question

ok so im a freshmen in highschool My goal is to try and make new frineds. People tell me to say hi to people for the 1st few weeks. So please tell me whats a good way to make friends? also! im a bit shy.

i saw this hot girl today but she was talking to her frineds. Im shy when walking into groups and interupting. So what should i do? how do i get to her?

Answer 1

Quote:
"You'll make more friends getting interested in people, then you'll ever make, trying to make people interested in you"


In other words the secert is to learn how to emphasise with your audience, which is a fancy word for understanding your audience's perceptions, with is a fancy word for "point of view". Sort of like her, lets say she's had constant flood of horny fellas comming up and asking her out, lets say she's smart enough to see thru that. Well then you can reason that she knows that conversation, getting along, having interest, and being deep are a good way to get to know her.

Understand that people feel ALOT like you do!!! YEP even the overwelming depressed feelings, they feel that to! But just try and understand that with that said, people feel alot alike so use your own understanding of yourself to understand them, it takes a long time to master, better yet just be decent at it, lets just say theres alot more to this world then we give credit to. But just start with taking the quote serious, ask people questions about themselves, get them talking, if you can get them to mention a hobby, ask about the hobby like you feel like doing it yourself. It takes time, but you know your doing good because you'll lose track of time. Don't start with the lady thou, that be a hard learning curve, start with some people your not going to feel sexual tension with and work your way up, learn and understand! People are not as complicated as people would think, that IS if you learn to understand yourself, but you've got your whole life to master that.....