Don't flag me down because i really need people's advice.
Yesterday, when I came home at like 3am because of a party, I found out that me and my big brother was home alone because my parents were at another party. When I went to my room, minding my own business, my brother just came in on me and started kissing me! It was so disgusting because he was doing it on my lips (he's 1 yr older than me, so he's 19)! I tried pushing him away but then he spends his time lifting weights so he shoved me to my bed and started grinding himself on me, sitll kissing me and stripping me.
The next thing I knew, he was doing it. His face was red so I think he was drunk and also because he didn't say one word.
What do I do? My parents are going to China for a funeral of some friend of theirs that I dunno.
2007-09-13 15:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have been raped! Chances are, your parents may not get him or you any help unless you tell them what happened and demand help. Talk to them NOW.
They have no business leaving the country with this stuff going on!
Failing that, go to the hospital and get a rape kit.
You need to file charges if he raped you.
Your brother will not get help unless he gets in trouble.
Being drunk is not an excuse. Most drunks cannot "get it up".
Get a real keyed lock put on your bedroom door. Look at the little door latch... you may need to deepen the hole in the frame and get a deadbolt lock. $20 puts a reasonable barrier between you and him.
If your parents leave the country anyway, you need to find a friend to stay with for that interim. Your friends' parents will be sympathetic.
2007-09-13 19:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow man...thats rough. Its also a big red flag that he needs help. Drunk or not, there is something wrong with him and he needs to get help. Please tell someone (besides a bunch of strangers) what happened if you can't talk to him about it.
2007-09-17 05:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Waterwitch E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go stay at a friends house till your parents get home and then you tell them first thing when they get home. if you are really confused and don't know what to do. go to the police. this is not normal. you need to confront your brother of what he did to you.
good luck
2007-09-13 16:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your brother knows exactly what he did and he has passed the line and you should tell your parents about this
2007-09-13 15:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by roncj88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would tell the folks, they need to know whet your bro. done You could be with child.
2007-09-13 16:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents about it.
2007-09-13 15:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Leonie A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother what he did..he might not remember cuz he was drunk and also tell your parents
2007-09-13 15:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL UR PARENTS!!! ur brother needs to no wat he did was wrong just WRONG!!!! seriously tho u need to tell sum1 u trust that can help u...no lie!! =[[ it works by letting it all out
2007-09-13 16:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by nothingg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋