2007-09-13 14:14:30 · 9 answers · asked by mom of 4 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
sure why not. the oldest can handle the kids and so can your husband
2007-09-13 14:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong to leave your children no matter what. If you are a flight attendent then you wouldn't leave them for good, just while flying. the 21 yr old should be taking care of themselves, but the 13 yr old needs you. It would depend on how often you would be away as teenage years are quite important for kids and could change your relationship with them forever.
2007-09-13 21:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because your the kid's mother. The 21 year old can look after theirself but a 13 year old can not. Why the 13 year old is in your house and under 18 then it is your job as it's mother to take care of all it's needs not the 21 year old sibling.
2007-09-14 16:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is okay b/c your 21 yr old wont be able to have a life of his/her own!!! You're suppose to be having the time of your life @ 21 not babysitting! He/she needs a life!!
The 13yr old would need you!!! If you become a flight attendant you won't see them much!! If you have that many kids you need to have both feet on the ground not in the air b/c of plane crashes and such!! You should really reconsider this. Good luck!!
2007-09-14 04:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the oldest is 21 and therefore not a child but your 13 year old is a child approaching a critical time in his/her development. That child deserves to have a mother on the scene and present in their lives. The 21 year old might still need guidance as many young adults do but the younger child is just that, a child and a child always needs their mother.
2007-09-13 21:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its called working alot of parents do it....... No its not wrong.... Both kids can dress themselves, and basically take care of themselves, so dad wouldnt have alot to do.
The oldest isnt a kid they are an adult, and the 13 year old isnt a child but a teen. So I see nothing wrong with it.....
BY THE WAY have you seen snakes on the plane....... I dont think ill ever fly again.... YIKES.
2007-09-13 21:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say it was wrong....theuy are definately old enough to understand. It isn't like you are going to stay gone for a year. But if you are having reservations... Are you comfortable with it yourself? Hope I was helpful
2007-09-13 21:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, do you like throwing house parties?
2007-09-13 21:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. it's called the game of life and you do what u have to do.
2007-09-13 21:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by (!)listen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋