outside of us and not inside our souls and heart
2007-09-13 13:29:25 · 31 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are wired to notice and look at women regardless of their own age (yes, men in their 90's are still drawn to look and appreciate the female form) and even the woman who is turned out well and who has some physically appealing assets in her more mature years.
For younger men, it's looks first and the rest follows - as men mature that shifts somewhat.
How a woman shows herself or in some cases "displays" her attributes will communicate how men/people will look at her or see her. (By the way this applies to men as well.)
Think of a store with a display window. The store wants to attract attention so people will buy their goods. To do that it will dress its windows to appeal to the clientelle it wants to attract.
Before a woman's (or a man's) personal 'window' is dressed maybe more thought needs to be given to a) What is being offered; and b) Who is being invited to buy?
Men are men, bless them. Accept what is and be the best you can be.
If you are an attractive woman whether the beauty is exterior or radiating from within, you can make a mighty lot of people very happy by just looking at you - what a joy!
A.S.K. Calgary
2007-09-13 14:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that all men do. We just have to be discerning as to whether a man is the right kind of man or not (i.e. one that only focuses on the outside vs. caring about and wanting to get to know us as people). There are definitely men out there who are like this, it just may be hard to find at times. I have actually met quite a few though. I would say it is hard to be a woman when many men are like this, but really it isn't so bad because I just avoid these types of men (and usually you can spot them out pretty easily).
2007-09-13 13:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by celee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can blame the magazines, t.v., and movies for this stereotype. Men are told on a daily base by the entertainment industry that women are to be look at as a sexual object. If you want to change the way men see women today you are going to have to bring back some censorship. Men will respect you if you demand it from them by dressing and acting like a respectable woman. Hope this helps in some way.
Dominus Vobiscum
Don
2007-09-13 13:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by msrtampa04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard being a woman today because no matter how much things change, they stay the same. In a lot of ways we are worse off than we were 50 years ago.
2007-09-13 13:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, all and sundry has their very own deep little sexual fantasy that others could evaluate unusual. all and sundry does - even our mum and dad. sure, i discover yours unusual, yet having mentioned that im particular if i instructed you of mine you're able to discover mine unusual as properly. Its merely area of existence and who we are. in spite of the fact that, according to danger im incorrect even even with the shown fact that it does look as though its much less suitable by ability of society to make certain a black lady-white guy couple than a black guy-white lady element for some reason. Myself, i individually dont care the two way.
2016-11-15 04:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it has been since man began; nature makes man to look for a MATE; one he can make good babies with, not a relationship. So this is nothing new for women. Men usually only get good with the relationship thing after they can get the mating thing taking care of.
2007-09-13 13:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It amy be hard for you because men are only looking at your outter appearance in stead of your inner appearance, thats why converstation is important to get to know more about a person then just their looks are very deceiving also. I want someone who has something to offer besides looks and sex but also have a brain.
best of luck
2007-09-13 13:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dress in bigger clothes and quit putting yourself out there. If you want men not to look at your outside, don't flaunt it as much. The quality of men you attract will probably get better.
2007-09-13 13:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by havanablu 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The outsides what they see first.
At the end of the day,if they dont want to really get to know you , then thats there loss!
Someone Bigger and Better will come along!
2007-09-13 13:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
GEEE, look at your advar, its no wonder you get looked at from the outside and not the inside. Be true to yourself first and dont play dumb head games. If you go around showing your *** off to everybody, then you already set yourself up. by the way, nice ***, dumb question.
2007-09-13 13:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mark G 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋