i am fourteen, and i love my boyfriend, i think im ready, any advice?
2007-09-13 13:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although many 14 year olds can be mature and may feel emotionally mature...In my opinion NO 14 year old is emotionally mature to go all the way or physically ready at that. How old is the boyfriend? Not that that matters. and the remark..I THINK I am ready..well to me that alone says that you are not ready..what is the rush! Take your time..and wait...it will be better in the long run.. how ever you are going to do what you want..but thats my opinion...and if you choose to "go all the way" PLEASE use PROTECTION! keep yourself safe!
2007-09-13 13:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Claire S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he and how long have you been together Sex changes everything your relationship will never be the same just so you know. he will start to want to have sex with you all the time and you will start to feel like thats all he wants from you.I know a girl that is 15 she has been with her boyfriend for two years and they still have not had sex. they talk about it but want to wait. its better the longer you wait.what if you get pregnant at this age are really able to raise a child at your age if your answer is no then you are not ready to have sex.I am 25 and think I am so mature but when I look back at your age I thought I was mature to but when looking back I realize I didn't have a clue.Even now I am learning about relationships stuff. You really don't know if you are going to be with this guy for forever don't just give it up make them work for it. Get that diamond ring or at least a couple of years with a solid good relationship before you go into all that.Good luck
2007-09-13 13:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I love your account. Every question is about sex, ur so horny. Oh and I'd say go ahead and have sex with your boyfriend. I'm 14 too, and if a girl told me she wanted to have sex my only thoughts would be "SWEET". And I'm sure any guy would feel the same way.. You're boyfriend is gonna be happy.
2007-09-14 15:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Alex S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry at 14 while you may feel you are emotionally ready -- i know he is not and why not wait --- it cant hurt and it allows you to be sure that you are physically and emotionally mature enough to handle the relationship --- best wishes
2007-09-13 13:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
14??? umm....well ur old enough to know what ur putting urself into.....but r u 100% sure ur ready, but u said u think so most likely ur not.....whats the rush anyways???? and plus do u really think u want to be a mamma at the age of 14 with no job and nothing....plus how do u know for a fact that he aint gonna leave u....plus ur old enough make sure its something ur not gonna regret......but i say wait....make the right choice
2007-09-13 14:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. T. Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea dont. if you have to think then your not. when you are you will know. my friends and i have a rule date for a year and see if you still like each other before hand. in most cases we didn't last a year. My friends sisiter friends are now using it and the one who broke its is about to have a kid shes 14 too. stick with the rule its seems to be a good one and you know a relationship is worth something if it it last that long
2007-09-13 13:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have to question it - chances are you're not ready.
Sex puts too much pressure on a relationship, not to mention can lead to STDs and pregnancy.
It's too big of a thing to have to worry about now. Think about school, your friends, hobbies, your family.
You'll thank yourself later if you wait. I promise.
2007-09-13 13:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by VetTech1016 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally would say wait, but I know that's not what you're looking for. Just make sure you're safe and make him wear protection.
2007-09-13 13:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not what ever that means. if your talking about sex. no. if you are. make sure you take all the precautions.
2007-09-13 13:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait at least one more year, you seem too young.
2007-09-13 13:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mike T 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋