ok i like this guy and he likes me back i pretty sure and hes in 10th and i am in 8th and we have kissed but should i go farther than that wit him cuz i trust him i just am confused
2007-09-13 12:29:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like you're gonna listen to us the next time he takes you out somewhere and pretends the car breaks down.
2007-09-13 12:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Listen, I know you don't want to hear that you are too young because the truth is, no one knows the right age for you to take the next step except YOU. But what you need to know is that the difference between tenth and eighth grade is huge... you should definately wait until you are in an official relationship and even then make sure that you know he likes you for you and isnt just using you. It may be hard to hear but it is true what they say about guys only looking for one thing.
If you do decide to stay with this guy, make him wait a while to make sure he is in it for the long haul. Then just trust your gut and listen to your heart.
2007-09-13 19:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by lynziemw 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are confused about going farther, then it's probably best not to. Don't rush things, you will end up regretting it when you are older.
8th grade is far too young for going anywhere farther than kissing, imo.
2007-09-13 19:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be blunt with you. You are way too young to be involved in these sort of things much less thinking of engaging in sexual intercourse.You are not emotionally ( maybe not even physically)ready to deal with issues of sex and their potential consequences.So ,my advise to you is to focus on your studies, have friends but not romantic or sexual ones, find some nice after school activities,listen to your family, don't let anyone talk you into doing anything you don't want to do,and be proud of your virginity.Believe me ,at the right time and with the right man , you will be glad you did. Don't hesitate to talk to your parents or other family members and trusted friends if you need further help and/or advice. Good luck.
2007-09-13 19:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you thought of the possibility that he's with you becuase you're easy pray?
I have no doubt that you're pretty and I'm not saying anything bad but older boys (especially in highschool) tend to want one thing.
You have your whole life ahead of you, kiss, date, enjoy your teen years, don't ruin it with 'The Next Step' if it means doing the horizontal tango.
Have fun, if he keeps pressuring you, dump him, do when you're ready, research and talk, before you jump in any sack or back seat think about it - no need for an 'accident' with diapers and formula.
2007-09-13 19:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for you at this point in your life .
He is a high schooler and boys at that age are not willing to attach themselves to a girl sooo much younger...It might not seem like many years but when a guy gets into high school his mind isn't about what you wish it would be about , He is surrounded by older more mature girls with a better grip on what is going on in his world ...maybe wait untill your in high school before you put all your eggs in one basket.
2007-09-13 19:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by i love my 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
You should have a heart to heart with someone you trust! Isn't there a nice lady you know and trust that you can open up to?
2007-09-13 19:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by White Tornado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I realise that you are smitten with this boy and he is older and prob so hot but try for someone in your own grade and don't let them push you into something you aren't ready for.
2007-09-13 19:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by justagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT go farther with him wait until ur older !
2007-09-13 19:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm telling your mom.
You are too young! Live a little longer first! You'll be glad you did.
2007-09-13 19:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Someone who cares 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋