Theres this fat nerd who keeps asking out my my girlfriend, I keep telling him to back off but he's won't, should beat the crap out of him, or should i try to reason with him
2007-09-13 12:29:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure she doesn't like him
2007-09-13 12:34:59 · update #1
she's rejected him many times, and bull crap they guys more of a loser then a nerd, he's as dumb as a box of rocks
2007-09-13 12:40:01 · update #2
trust me she does not like him, she always talk about how weird he acts
2007-09-13 12:46:47 · update #3
If you try to beat him up he might sit on you and smoosh you if your skinny. Is he doing anything creepy or is he just asking her out all the time? If he's bugging her too much it could be stalking. I would tell him to stop or else................
2007-09-13 12:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Legolas 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's probably more to it than even you realize.
1) Don't try to beat the crap out of him--if you're this jealous it's probably more muscle than fat.
2) Whether you realize it or not she is probably sending out some kind of signal/message. Generally guys don't continue to ask if the girl flat out says "No" and gives no indication there's reason to ask again.
Your gf is probably at least as responsible for this situation as the "fat nerd." Maybe you & the "fat nerd" should form a friendship and drop the girl and find other ones.
2007-09-13 12:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Diane P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for nerds. You may make fun of them, but because they are nerds, they have to be peristant on things they want, or else they won't get noticed. Honestly, if it was another chick trying to get with my man, I'd beat the snot out of her. You just don't do that, and as far as I knew, it was like a written law between guys that you don't go after each other's women. Now, if you're girlfriend's telling him. ."No, I'm not interested," then yea, you need to step up. But if she's leading him on as a joke, then you need to talk to her about it, and let her know that it bothers you, and maybe she'll stop. Good luck.
2007-09-13 12:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat the crap out of him, who knows, maybe she would stick up for him and leave YOU for him out of pity!
Later in life those fat nerds will end up being the CEO of the company you work for, so I would reason with him. Besides, be careful, it doesn't sound like your girlfriend is pushing him away too much if he thinks there is still a chance!
2007-09-13 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by blondieeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't I rephrase this question for you. Instead of "fat nerd won't leave my girlfriend alone" it should be "my girlfriend won't leave fat nerd alone".
This is her doing too, she obviously wants to be friends with him or she wouldn't be talking to him. Even though he might come across as a threat to you because of his intentions, your girlfriend can handle this.
Talk to her about it and let her know how píssed it's making you feel. If all else fails, confront this guy and reason with him firmly - don't swear - and DON'T beat him up.
Good luck.
2007-09-13 12:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets start with this is a big flash back. but heres the thing if she not bothered by it you shouldnt be. if hes a big fat nerd like you say. why are you getting so worried about it. just laugh it off. if she is bothered by it then i wouldnt beat them crap out of him. it never really does anything. help her avoid him if possible and try getting a restraning order. that is technically harassment.
2007-09-13 12:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence will never solve anything.
Reason always works better. Have your girlfriend talk to him first. Have her explain that she is in a relationship that she's happy with, and that she isn't interested in him.
If he keeps it up, both of you talk to him, sternly, without threatening him mind you.
If the guy is extremely persistant, pretend to be engaged. It once worked for me.
And there is nothing wrong with being a nerd or with being "fat."
2007-09-13 12:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by the forgetable girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you seem so threatened by him or are you not sure that your girlfriend can handle him by herself? I've never understood why guys who think they're so great feel so threatened by "nerds" who ask out their girlfriends. If you really were so much better than him, you wouldn't waste a single minute worrying about him.
2007-09-13 12:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat him... Poor guy. I understand he is a fat nerd and trying to move in on your chick but give the dude a break... He is a fat nerd and he doesn't have a chance.
2007-09-13 12:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by justagirl 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth your time or energy. But your girlfriend is. If she is so happy with you that she keeps saying no to anyone else, There is no problem.
2016-05-18 23:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by meghann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs to stand up for herself.
My experience is that we women can easily shun unwanted advances (unless he's a stalker), but once another guy gets involved then there's a lot of chest thumping and machismo bullshit and neither of them can gracefully back down.
2007-09-13 12:34:57 · answer #11 · answered by Shades of Grey♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋