I'm so damn aggravated.... I feell like punching a wall?
I don't know what's wrong with me, I've been pretty angry lately and I cant seem to put a finger on what's wrong with me. I think its cuz i was disrespected by this guy who tried to take advantage of me but I put him in his place. but I"m just soooo ANGRY. ARGHH. I don't know what to do and its stressing me out. I cant even seem to concentrate in school. I truly hate men now. I have absolutely no respect for any of them. why do they all think that just cuz i'm a girl that I want to be a damn sexual relationship. WTF does it say easy on my forehead. I'm going to be single forever because I dont think there's hope for guys anymore. I know I"m only 20 but I feel older than I am and I dont even have alot of experiences with guys. This is just too much.
2007-09-13 12:21:38 · 10 answers · asked by . 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
girl. you did the right thing by putting him in his place. dont ever let a guy take advantage over you. and dont waste YOUR time being angry over an idiot. get over it. move on.not every guy is a jerk. you cant just blame every guy out there for something this particular loser did. there are alot of guys out there that are really sweet and actually want the real thing and will respect you and not take advantage of you. you just gotta wait. and eventually the right one will find you =] life is too short to stay angry at someone. Besides, good luck to him trying to take advantage of another girl. . . it'll get him "really" far in life.. anyways you gotta cheer up =] forget bout him . . pretend he was never in your life...
2007-09-19 11:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by ally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at how you are interacting with men to see if you are giving off some subtle message about what you want. Maybe in your head you are thinking one thing, but your behavior is giving a totally different message. I also do think there are men out there that only want this in a relationship. But, this is not all men. There are very good men out there, so don't shut the door on them. Why aren't you attracting them? Do the ones you are attracted to seem more exciting and in that they are less respectful of you?
2007-09-13 13:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're only 20 and dating guys your age, you're dating "boys!" Remember they mature much slower than women do. Enjoy this time of intelligence, concentrate on school or work and having a good time.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't let one guy or the rest of the "boys" sour you on men. Men are grown up and respectful. Take you time; the right man will find you.
2007-09-13 13:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you need to take a deep breath. In fact, take 2 or 3 deep breaths. Please, for your health, LET IT GO. You took care of the situation and I applaud you for that !!!! If you were my daughter I would be praising you up and down for setting this so called GUY in his place. You must remember that men think differently from us. Basically men, not all men, but the majority of men are PIGS. While you are being stressed by this guy do you think he cares how you are feeling? Of course not, he could give 2 hoots as to how you are feeling right now. Do NOT let a man get you to this point, it is NOT worth it honey. Also, do NOT let a man make you cry........NOT worth it. You respect yourself and go on......make good grades.........get your degree.......be PROUD of yourself !!!! I AM !!!! Blessings
2007-09-13 12:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by DERLANDSON 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had a lousy experience like that.. All guys aren't jerks (yup some are), just like all girls aren't peaches.
You really need to let this experience go. Your focusing on it is hurting you and not the other person. So think about that.. if you let them get to you .. they win --- if you dismiss it for what it was ( a stupid act perpetrated by a stupid person on a nice person ) then you win.
What would you advise a friend to do... (other than castration :-).. if you were not involved.. then follow your advice to your friend.
Good luck friend.
2007-09-13 12:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry that happened and I understand you would be angry and frustrated, but even though it might not seem like it, there are good guys out there, believe me. You’ll find someone one day, just take it day by day. :] Things will work out in due time. <3 I’m glad you stood up for yourself, that’s a good thing. That guy is just a jerk who doesn’t know what no means.
2007-09-13 12:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, the count is an idiot. I am very happy to know you feel this way. Study hard, get a great job and someday you will meet the right person. These jokers around you now have two lobes in their brains. A micholobe and a sexlobe. That's it. You go girl. Send them away. Wait for the gold. It is out there.
2007-09-13 12:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will always try.
It has nothing to do with you as a person.
Feel good that you're not a push over.
2007-09-13 12:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMT maybe? Makes me angry.
Or are you on antidepressants or something?
Go get a massage or something xxx
2007-09-13 12:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
duh, your a woman
2007-09-13 12:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋