this my first relationship in years im out of practise
2007-09-13 12:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by SHARON B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time you meet don't end up in bed with him...say you got your period or something and avoid it...
If he doesn't try to go out with you again for a week or so...then forget about him!
Unless you don't mind just having sex with him.
Just don't fall for him.
2007-09-13 12:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jen C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what i would do. Go out for a nice night out. Wear a nice dress. Not to short short not to long. And look lovly as i'm sure you do wen ever you go out. Please don't get me wrong. Just giving advise. Keep any converation that you have with him of the nature of sex. Kiss and cuddle as any couple would. And i can only assume that you don't live together? And when the night is over. Tell him in a nice way that you want to just be droped off at your place and just be on your own tonight. You have an early start in the morning. And if he really does have repect for you. He should say. Thats fine call me tomorrow. But if he gives you the old. Look we have been out i have been nice to you and i want a bit of pay back. Then you have your answer. Good luck.
2007-09-13 13:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by cobra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only seen him twice but you already know you want more?
I bet you wouldn't want more if you found out he only wanted to sleep with you, which by what you said is the only thing he has shown he wants.
Talk to him, tell him how you feel and explain as clearly what you want (if you really know what you want) and where you are coming from. Almost the same way you would ask a question on here. Then listen carefully to what he says and listen even more carefully for what he doesn't say... follow your instincts and you'll have your answer
Good luck
2007-09-13 12:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
?? ?? ???
met a new guy ...
both times we met ended up in bed ...
how do i find out if he out 4 what he can get ...
Please dont be silly here... You have already PROVED beyond doubt that he is... why are you even considering this?
Wake-up-call = If he wasn't, you wouldn't have gone there ...
To bed....
With him ...
Wake up and smell the coffee ...
You can do so much better..find someone who's worthy of you
2007-09-13 12:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out for a drink and see if he goes. If not, then it's fair to say that he's only interested in the one thing. I've been in this situation before and it's not really nice to feel used, so i know what you mean.
2007-09-13 19:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre giving,hes taking,thats not the basis for a relationship,if he doesnt want what you want hes not worth it,and dont jump into bed with the 1st bloke youre with,meet someone and wait a few weeks b4 sleping with them,if hes patient,hes usually worth it!
2007-09-13 12:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by lees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit obvious, no ? and you are not different if you jump straight to bed with a bloke you hardly know !
2007-09-13 12:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Trucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want this relationship to be more then just sex and if he says no punch him in the head and dump his butt ok reiben
2007-09-13 12:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's already getting it.
2007-09-13 12:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to say no.
2007-09-13 12:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋