A quality Man?

Question

What are the best places to meet a quality man?

when i mean quality i mean: honest fun romantic is motivated has goals he wants to accomplish, somethin like that

it all sounds a little too easy to be true but thank you for the advice

Answer 1

Wow, you know it's so hard to predict where you'll meet a "quality man." I'm sure a lot of people would say church and church groups, and this is probably true. But, it could also be in a group with a similar interest as yours there are a lot of meetups where you can get to know people with similar interests- check out: www.meetup.com

Also, many say that you can't meet anyone worthwhile at a bar or a club, but you never know. My friend in college met her future husband (a very nice guy) in a club when he asked her to dance.

I think that your best bet is to know exactly what it is that means "quality" to you. Someone with similar interests? A good heart? Generous? A good family? Steady job? Once you're more clear about who you're looking for, you'll recognize the quality man when you see him and HOPEFULLY - go for it!

Best wishes~

Answer 2

"honest fun romantic is motivated has goals he wants to accomplish, somethin like that"

Like some people have said. It really can be anywhere. You never know, maybe a polite, random guy who holds out a door for you will be the one, or maybe you're out shopping at a mall and suddenly you found yourself having a quality conversation with someone.

These days some people seem to think that online matchmakers are the best way to go about it. Personally I'm too old fashion for that kind of thing I guess. Furthermore, you can't always trust what people put in their profiles. Still online matchmakers must work to an extent otherwise there wouldn't be so many of those services out there.

Some people have said that you could try meeting people who are share similar interests with you. If you're a college student or so, this is pretty easy to accomplish due to the multitude clubs they offer.

Regardless, try to listen to your feelings and be mindful of your surroundings. If someone seems interesting, try to start a conversation with that person. You can learn a lot about the individual by having conversations.

Answer 3

honestly theres weirdos everywhere hun. Some places you'll have better luck then others, but i cannot ever promise you the perfect man. Somtimes appearances can be deseving and a rough tough looking guy can turn out to be sensitive, but the smart college boy might turn out to be abusive. I met my bf at a club which so many people think is like the worst place to go because theres so many drunks and drug addicted guys dancing around waiting on somone to hook up with. He's the best quality guy i've had. I'm not saying go to a club right away because you may not have as much luck as me, so i suggest go somwhere where it feel more calming. Not a library, i mean who wants a nerdy soft guy right, try a local arena first. Sign up for a club at a ceneter that offers fitness classes, etc. You could meet a buff sexy& smart guy there. Try a club that involves a hobby you like which you may connect with somone in one of these classes. Other places could be: Mall, Park, cofee shop/resteraunt, tavern, educational campus, friend's friend, a social get together like a wedding. So many things. Best thing is to go for a guy your friend would recommend you.

Answer 4

I went through this too...and can tell you what I have learned. Keep in mind that the "qualities" that you look for in a man may be different than other womens'.

What places/things do YOU enjoy? Dance Clubs? (not Bars!)Museums? Movies? Tennis or other sports? You would want to meet someone who had the same interests as you do.

You don't have to "hunt"...they could be all over the place. Usually one (or more!) will just happen into your world one day. =)

Answer 5

You can meet a complete ****** at your church picnic the same as you can meet Prince Charming at the crappiest club in town! The place makes no difference at all. What makes the difference is the proactive work you put into looking for the man that is right for you. There is no such thing as a soul mate nor will your dream boat fall out of the sky onto your lap! You have to work at making a relationship work from the very beginning. Don't fall for the social stereotypes of ideal men and go out there and shape the one you want into existence!

Answer 6

Best place to find a guy who will be of your "quality" will be doing what you love to do. No point in going to a bar to meet someone if you don't like drinking or bars, because the only people you will find there probably like it. I say if you have any personal hobbies that you enjoy you should try to find a group or organization of people with the same interests. That way you have some things in common right away.

Answer 7

I am a 43 year old man. Have a great career, my own house, cars, money. I am educated and well rounded. I was married for 18 years and got divorced several years ago as while I was working my tail off, my wife was working hers off too, but with everyone else but me. Anyway, I have been single for 5 years now. Been on countless dates and have also tried the web-dating thing. Every on on their except me lies like mad, I swear. I have also come to conclude that its all a "game" that I no longer want anything to do with. Everyone I have met are insane, on drugs, are looking for a daddy for them and / or their kids or have one symbol in mind that they look for more than anything: "$$$$". I can only give you one real bit of advise: Although it is not pleasent to be alone all of the time, it sure beats being with the wrong person. You must make peace with yourself that its not a bad thing to have high standards. Do not under any circumstances give up your dream and then find someone to "settle" for. Never let anyone take advantange of you. Wait for the right person to come along. You must be patient and know that eventually that person will cross your path. Wait for the person you can not live with out, not the one you can live with. I think that if your meant to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it. Seems like if you go searching, it leads to disapointment. Good Luck.

Answer 8

I don't believe that online dating can really help you meet a "quality" man. in my experience, the men found there are entirely too insecure and desperate for love. not much of a turn on, personally.

I find that you can look for great singles in a community setting around a shared interest. a kickboxing class at the gym? join a church group? volunteer for habitat for humanity? There is also a great program being promoted in Minneapolis, where I live, called Events and Adventures. i think the basic premise is to gather like-minded singles together and do fun things like horse-back riding or trips to new york city or something.

maybe there is a program like that in your area?

wouldnt hurt to check it out, right?

Answer 9

I happen to be a quality man. We're everywhere. Be sure he's not wearing a wedding ring. Best place is the supermarket. Unavailable guys usually have their girls do the grocery shopping. The guy at the store with diapers in the basket is probably not available. The guy with the microwave dinners, and other scary food probably is available. All he needs is a woman to make sure he eats right!

Answer 10

Really you can find a quality man anywhere. It depends on what you like. I met a great guy at a night club(shocking, right?). I would think some good places would be:
Library
Museum
Home improvement store
His place of business(depends on what you're looking for)
Church(but not necessarily)
A nice restaurant??
How about the grocery store(likes cooking?? or would go for you??)