When stating a fact - it's fine to just state it. When stating your opinion - I think it's important to preface it with "I believe" or "My thought is" - or SOMETHING to let others now that it's your opinion and not the final word on something. I've learned that this helps keep communication open and moving forward - especially when discussing something as personal as religion. People are not nearly as easily offended if you "own your own statement." Do you agree?
2007-09-13 11:38:29 · 2 answers · asked by liddabet 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I definitely agree, and it's something that took me some time to accept. Sometimes, even if you do believe you have the final word, it's still wise to preface in some tactful way like, "according to my religion, this is the way it is . . .", rather than, "THIS IS THE WAY IT IS, PERIOD." As you said, it keeps the lines of communication open, because it signals that you are, in fact, interested in having a conversation, as opposed to preaching or dictating to someone what they must do or believe.
2007-09-13 11:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Agellius CM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you are saying, but I do not necessarily agree. Someone is going to get offended not matter what you say. As to whether or not it is opinion or fact, even some facts are based on opinion. I think it should be assumed that the person is stating their opinion. If you would like a source then ask for it. I always do and it usually works.
2007-09-13 11:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by alana 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋