This is a guy I sit next to in college.He told me the other day how he kicks his small dog .He sent me the following on our college website.
Hey,
I really don't understand what your problem is with me. The only thing I have done for you since you came this semester and I came was made you feel like you could have a friend in me. I didn't really know what to expect from you but I deffinatly did not expect this. The way you are acting is very childish and immature. If all you care about is telling nasty rumors about people then perhaps you should go back to a highschool environment. I am nearly 20 years old and do not have the time to waste on such idiocy as you telling a guy to come and talk to me about the importance of not "abusing" animals. (Which may I remind you I don't do in the first place). I should have known not to trust you. I am not a person you want to cross Cami, if you don't like me that's fine, sit far away from me in class and DONT TALK TO ME! But don't stand there like an immature little school girl and go and tell rumors about me.. Stuff about me you don't have any clue about. If your "friend" comes up to me again I will be the one taking out harrassment charges on you and him. There are better ways we can solve this other then "OH I'm going to get a boyfriend and have him come say something to Kent" Thats too childish and it needs to stop IMMEDIATLY. I have many friends in this school and you don't want to cross me. As I've said... if you don't like me sit far away from me and don't talk to me... don't even look at me... I could really give a crap less what you think of me honestly.... just know you can't afford another harrassment charge against you. Thanks alot for being a good friend.
Kent
2007-09-13 10:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by JPM Chick 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Just sounds like a desperate, insecure jerk. Run far, run fast. No it's not harassment.
2007-09-13 10:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Flatpaw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes - the comment of "not wanting to cross me" and that he has "many friends in this school" are indications that harm could come to you should you choose to pursue what he feels as "harassment". It may not be that way to you, but in his psyche, that is how it is interpreted. Might I suggest 1) avoiding him in class, 2) avoid having any of your colleagues/friends communicate with him, and 3) print out his email and show it to someone in your department of counciling to see if this is something your particular school considers as dangerous (and telling) language.
As a former college dormitory resident associate, I would urge you to touch base with the proper individuals to avoid any danger to either yourself or your classmates. If this individual openly comments to you in this manner, there is a high likelihood he may have done the same with others.
2007-09-13 17:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by LawGirl 2012 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After reading his letter and your posting it on the Internet, I see why he would tell you to stay as far away from him as you need to. He's right, take it back to High School, its where this kind of BS belongs. It's not a threat as much as it is a promise.
2007-09-13 17:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by macaroni 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no not at all... thats not even close to a threat really.....he just said he has many friends in school never said they would be doing anything to you or your BF....id take his advice and stay far far far away though jus to be on the safe side...and discontinue talking about him to anyone since he does have many friends it might get back to him and u dont want to deal with that at all!! good luck
2007-09-13 17:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by JoDoLo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it and don't talk to stay away from him,and don't talk to him like he wished.Then if he still bothers you or even talks to you,then remind him of what he said on the website.What he said about his dog is probably untrue anyway.He was just trying to impress you.
2007-09-14 17:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by BEJEWELED 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he was joking about kicking his dog? And what exactly did you or your boyfriend say to him? Did you guys threaten him as well?
You should definitely stay away regardless.
2007-09-13 17:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ann K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are both winners.
Remember the proverb about glass houses.
2007-09-13 17:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see where the threat is but it seems as though you're not telling the full story.....
2007-09-13 17:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is harassing you, I think he is more into you & considers that a way of flirting.
2007-09-13 17:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
2007-09-13 17:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋