all my what i call my friends keep leaving me out of things going off with each other. Everytime i look at them there all happy and laughing but i feel down! Also when i come home my mum's always crying because her and my dad are spilting up and we have major money issues! I feel really bad! I used to be happy and laughing i used to be a totally mad! I want to be that person again! help???
2007-09-13 09:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your friends may not be leaving you out of things, but instead you may be pulling away from them due to your mood swing. I have done that many times and thought how horrible my friends are for doing things w/o me, but if I really paid attention, I noticed that I was welcome to be with them, but I chose to be alone. It sounds like you are going thru a really bad time right now and you need your friends now, more than ever. Find a shoulder to cry on and use it. It helps to get your feelings out and keep a journal. This will help you heal.
2007-09-13 09:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by ToriJo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget these people you call 'friends', because obviously they aren't worth your time.
I'm sorry about your money issues and your mum/dad.
In time things will get better, you have to be positive.
And take your mind off things, join a new activity club where you can meet lots of new people =]
2007-09-13 16:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by lalalaland 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are pulling away from them because of other things....
There is nothing that anyone can say to you...
Nothing that anyone can do for you....
You must find someting inside to drive you.....
Once you find that inner strength then things will change outwardly....you will prob hear this of have heard this before though.....but the beginning point is inside.....
Dont worry about being who you use to be..just be who you are...deal with things that come your way...we had a saying in the Army...One target at a time..engage one target at a time
2007-09-14 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't allow yourself to fall deeper into a depressed state, it is important to find some new interests, friends, etc. to lift your spirits. Don't dwell on your parents problems, they will work them out and wouldn't want to worry you anymore.
2007-09-13 16:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depression.
*hugs*
2007-09-13 16:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by hope 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We'll i guess it shows who your real friends are i'm kinda going through that to and you just have to get out there and make new ones good and loyal friends don't let there rudness bring you down!!!!!thats their problem.
2007-09-13 16:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by chiky chiky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a boyfriend and spend alot of time with him. Ur friends will get jealous and want to spend more time with you.
2007-09-13 16:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-09-13 16:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋