But would turn around and cuss you out if you did something she did not like, belittle you, scream at you. Doing this only behind closed doors. AND THEN when she is out in public or with her friends, her sons, or at church she does "prophetic" like things and is sweet as pie. I am speaking of my MIL does anyone else have a problem like this? How do I stand up for myself and how do I ask my fiance to stand up for me?
2007-09-13 07:00:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Thank you so much "Schneb" your answer helped me out tremendously. I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ. But sometimes these people, under the diguise of being a "prophet" but then treating people this way behind the scenes, really made me question my faith, integrity, and made me feel worthless and spiritually drained.
2007-09-13 07:18:42 · update #1
Best to avoid and ignore these folks. They are unstable people. A prophet is known by their ability to prove their prophecies by telling the future as if it were the past. Not just blathering anything that pops in their twisted mind and say its of God.
Those that act the way you describe are only fooling themselves, and some others who know no better, but they are not fooling God, and God will judge them for speaking things in His name that were not from Him.
I took this question because, yes, I did meet a "prophetess" in Israel, and she was very interesting to listen to. I did not have time to confirm her words, but what she had to say was fascinating stuff nonetheless.
2007-09-13 07:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I worked for a lady like that until "Jesus" told her to fire me. She didn't go around cursing per Se but she had a way of working the financial records to favor the company rather than paying the IRS or some of the employees as per their contract. It's so strange how "Jesus" showed her or told her how to do those things.
2007-09-13 07:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance should most definately be standing up with you! You need to tell him how his mother treats you, what she says, and how she makes you feel. If he won't stand up to her with you, you need to reconsider the relationship.
He can't really do much until you tell him what's going on, but he should be more than willing to make sure his mother treats you with the respect you deserve.
If you think it's bad now, imagine after you're married!
2007-09-13 07:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to stay away from people like that. Unless you are willing to go so far as to push her to do it in public (which isn't a good idea unless you are willing to separate yourself from that family all together). I just wouldn't go around her.
2007-09-13 07:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by River 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called a hypocrite
not all people do as they should, sorry you have this to see, it is a shame
kindly tell her you would like to be left alone and stay away from her
2007-09-13 07:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Gifted 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joan of Arc
2007-09-13 07:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lin Li 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋