Hello. I have always had an animal in my life. We had guinea pigs, but hubby was allergic so we gave them away. We had a dog and hubby was allergic, but it didn't bother him that much because he left the dog alone. I really want a kitten/cat, but am afraid that he will be allergic. I know he will never agree to owning an animal (he just isn't an animal lover like I am) so I was thinking of just getting one anyway. What do ya'll think? I have heard that females are less allergic than males and lighter color fur is also less allergic. Again, what do ya'll think? I just want a furry friend in my life again! Thanks ya'll.
2007-09-13 05:27:44 · 10 answers · asked by cows4me79 4 in Pets ➔ Cats
If he's allergic to the other creatures your husband will almost certainly be allergic to a cat, they being an animal that causes most reactions in humans.
I think it would be cruel to your husband to get an animal that is going to make him ill and cruel to get an animal that will have to be rejected later.
Have you tried your husband near poodles? These do not moult , so have to be clipped regularly, but as they do not moult do not cause as many allergies a dogs that do.
2007-09-13 05:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say your two best options are one to get one of those hairless cats, or why not get a hypoallergenic dog? There are dogs like Yorkies and Poodles that make great pets and are hypoallergenic which means your husband will not be allergic to the animal per say. Now I can tell you that if you bring home a cat and he is allergic he is not going to be too happy with you or the cat at least I would not think. And that could cause strife between you two and could cause him to feel bad twards your furry new friend = bad times. So again I would recommend a poodle or a yorkie now keep in mind if he has outdoor allergies you are going to want to give the dog a bath at least once a week when its going outside and traking in the allergins from outside. Also if you go with a yorkie you need to keep in mind their hair..they have people hair and it has to be treated as such. They are good for apartments or people with not a whole lot of time although they can be a pain to potty train (I know this because I raise them,and have years of experience with the breed). So I would also reccomend a female they are so much easier to potty train but get them fixed unless you want a mess every six months. Anyways if you get a pet your husband can enjoy with you it will make for a happier home. Good Luck on your new furry friend!
2007-09-13 09:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lecia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some research before you do. I know you more than likely don't want a hairless cat, but there are some others that won't cause any allergic reaction.
I'm allergic to cats as well, but I've always owned them. Claritin is great and will keep most of the symptoms from bothering him.
Still, you might want to get him involved. Do a web search and find some breeds that you like and then see which are less likely to cause an allergic reaction. Let him help choose and if he doesn't want one, keep doing the research. You might find something to change his mind or be able to reach some agreement.
2007-09-13 05:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Statikat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is actually a hairless cat breed out there, although, it's not really the fur that causes the allergine, but the cat's syliva. Also, many people allergic to cats have major problems with the cat boxes. If you get the right type, you may be able to toilet trane the cat by using a kid's potty chair to hold the cat litter. Once that is established, you can use a toilet pan that goes directly on the seat and go from there. Do NOT under any circumstances go behind his back. He will feel that you don't love him and leave. "Either the cat goes or I go." Discuss the possibilities. Can the cat be kept in one area of the house. etc..
2007-09-13 05:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by redfeather1972 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some breeds of cats are less allergenic than others. My ragdoll sheds like crazy, but doesn't seem to affect people with allergies as badly as many other cats. Consider having a pet that stays outside some or all of the time. My husband is also not an animal person, but I had had my cat for over five years when we met and wasn't about to give my furry friend up. Try exposing him to cats (at friends or relatives homes) and see if he has a bad alergic reaction. I know you'll regret your decision if it makes him sick. Also consider that if you have children later on, they may inherit your husbands allergies and then you will have to get rid of your pet.
2007-09-13 05:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by orangeflameninja 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The color of fur nor sex makes a cat any less or more allergic.
If your husband was allergic to the other animals most likely he will be allergic to a cat. It seems most people who might have an allergy will most allergic to cats.
2007-09-13 05:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, it sounds to me like you already know what is going to happen. You've gotten pets before and because of your husband, had to get rid of them. If you get a cat now without discussing it with him, I'd like to bet a week's pay that you will have to get rid of either the cat or the husband. Which, either way is kind of drastic - I mean, you must love the man or you would not have married him, and also why would you want to get attached to pets you know you are going to have to give away.
My boyfriend is allergic to cats, but he likes them, and loves our cats. He takes his allergy meds regularly (Claritin and Sudafed do wonders for him), and we keep the cats out of the bedroom. Regular grooming, lots of vacuuming help too. To him whatever allergy suffering he has is worth it because he loves these cats.
You mention your husband did not have a very strong allergic reaction to the dog, yet he had you get rid of it. This makes me wonder if he simply does not like animals, or at least does not like sharing his home with them. You need to talk this out with him - possibly with the help of a clergymember or couples counseling. Because if you do not work this out - really understanding each other's point of view and willing to compromise where it is possible - you are just going to spin your wheels and dig yourself in deeper and deeper in the mud of this unworkable aspect of your relationship.
The only less-allergenic breed of cat I am aware of is the Rex - the kind with curly hair. Other than that, it doesn't matter what color the cat is, or which sex.
2007-09-13 06:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Windi Lea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll end up having to get rid of the kitty, too. I have two cats and a rabbit and am allergic to all of them! I wash carefully after handling them. If hubby isn't an animal lover, chances are he won't make any effort.
2007-09-13 05:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by red 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Logically if you were allergic to his sperm, you would most be affected in the area where most of the sperm was left, generally inside the vagina. It is unlikely that if it were an allergic reaction that the reaction would be confined to the inside of your urethra. Urinate immediately after sex. Avoid spermicidal condoms, and all douches and sprays. Do not mix anal and vaginal intercourse or oral sex without washing between. Avoid eating citric acids and take in more cranberry juice (unsweetened) or take cranberry supplement pills. All should reduce your chances of getting another. Most importantly, make an appointment with your doctor and FINISH your antibiotics.
2016-05-18 21:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by kaci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go to a shelter with him a couple times and see how he reacts. i wouldn't just bring home an animal he might be allergic to. what if he goes into respiratory distress because his allergy is severe?
2007-09-13 05:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by g g 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋