I met this guy online. We met at his place for the first time (stupid I know). We had a great time. He put me on his top friends for Myspace. This was Sunday. I have talked to him briefly Mon and Tues on AIM. No phone calls since then. And now there's nothing. No calls, no instant messages, no texts. He removed me from is top friends. Um what changed? I've barely talked to him since Sunday when all was fine (it's thurs) how could he have changed how he felt about me without talking to me? Any ideas? Thanks so much.
2007-09-13 03:57:18 · 32 answers · asked by Future Cat Lady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and I didn't sleep with him....just a little making out...which i thought was good.
2007-09-13 04:03:36 · update #1
That's the problem with meeting people online. He was someone you "knew" that one day then he moved on. I would not worry about it one bit. He's not worth your time. Try and find a nice "real life" relationship next time. Someone who deserves you and your time. I bet you'll be on their myspcae #1 spot for a very long time.
Good luck! :)
2007-09-13 04:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by clj02 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With you meeting him on the net, there is no telling. However, you do now know where he lives, and can possibly catch him at home to see what is up. He could have met someone else, which is likely on the net. I would pretend to be someone else and try to talk to him the way you met him and the way you did the first time and see if he does the same thing. If so, then you know that he is just in for the excitement of meeting people like that. It will come back on him though. He was likely expecting sex from you, and when he did not get what he wanted, then he decided to leave it at that since that was all he was looking for anyway.
2007-09-13 04:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Evidently he's decided that you're not what he wants for now. He may have already met someone else the same way. And yes, meeting at his place was stupid for a first meeting. You didn't say what happened at his place. And just maybe the meeting wasn't cracked up to what he thought it would be. He could provide you with a great time for one night to humor you, but didn't want it to become a recurring thing, or else the meeting didn't end up him getting what he really wanted after all (if you get what I mean).
2007-09-13 04:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be so nosy but did you sleep together or anything? In that case he's got what he wants and you probably won't hear from him again (some men are buttholes like that).
Otherwise he could be genuinely busy, might have met someone else or he just decided he didn't want anything more from you after all, in which case I would just try to forget him and move on. Don't pin your hopes on someone who doesn't call. I spent 2 months in a relationship where I was just waiting for the guy to call, he always promised to but never did and it just destroyed my self esteem at the time. Don't put yourself through that.
2007-09-13 04:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Fröken Fräken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you slept with him then obviously he was giving you all that attention, putting you on myspace, talking to you all the time, just to get in your pants (IF u did sleep with him.)
If not then maybe when he hung out with you there was something about you in person that he really didn't like and instead of being adult about it and letting you know what's up, he's being a chicken about it and just ignoring you.
I say you tried and that's all you can do. Just let it go now b/c if not you're going to make a fool of yourself and seem desparate if you keep going after him
2007-09-13 04:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure as heck wouldn't go chasing after him-
You know the shirt that says "You were hotter on myspace?"
Well? Noone looks the same in person- our personality and mannerisms change our appearance to people.
Looks are not just "looks" they are a combo of physical appearance and personality combined.
So he decided after meeting that he doesn't like you. Big deal- it could have been you changing your mind.
Move on. And don't ever be so dumb as to go to some strange guys house, unless you want to end up dead.
2007-09-13 04:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say forget him and move on! At least you found out he was a jerk before you got really involved w/ him! And the next time you feel a connection w/ someone from the net and want to meet up w/ them...do it at the mall's food court or some other extremely public place! Better luck next time!
2007-09-13 04:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Summer Days 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have gotten the wrong Idea about you, just because you guys meet on the web originally and you were willing to meet a stranger. I know, I know, people so easily get the wrong idea about something that's just suppose to be fun or interesting. Girl as long as you didn't "put out" your still on top of things. He may have moved on to someone less harder to get over on. If a quy wants you, make him work for it.
2007-09-13 04:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys met one time. It's good you had a good time but don't expect him to start putting photos of you all over his house and putting you has his number 1 myspace buddy. Could be a number of things. You guys are just getting to know each other so things could go any number of ways from here.
2007-09-13 04:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you did was meet this person. You do not have and really did not have a relationship. That takes months to build. So don't get too worked up. Online meetings are not really meant to be relationship builders, so all that time spent typing is just flirting.
2007-09-13 04:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋