i would like to revers roles, i mean I'm not married but i would love for my boyfriend to care more, sit up in his room just waiting for me to come home.
2007-09-13 04:03:55
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answered by lemon 1
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Know what the problem is here... there is a lack of understanding of the 7 hermetic principals. We live in a matriarchal society. If we reversed roles, men would work, pay the bills, and have poker night once a week and women would stay at home cooking, cleaning, and doing the laundry. Men by nature are outgoing, sporadic, the hunter, and women by nature gatherers, stable. Men build the house and the women turns it into a home. This power trip between the sexes is psuedo. It helps to promote division between the dual aspects of humanity that are supposed to in a state of symbiosis. Men by NATURE are built to master the external world, while women by NATURE are created to master the internal world. When you attempt to reverse the roles, you create stagnation, which in turn leads to frustration. This is what happens when you take something away from its natural element and substitute it with something that does not belong. This is our world as it stands, and our world is barely standing.
Would I like to reverse roles? NO!
2007-09-13 04:33:30
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answered by Venom Spartan 3
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My wife works full time - me anything from 0 - 5 days a week (as a teacher). We have an 18 month old boy.
I do 95% of the cooking, 80% of the cleaning (inc. laundry and ironing). We do shopping together and plan all household chores together. It works for us and we are both more than happy.
She meets with her girlfriends most weekends. I still get to have a beer and to play a bit of pool, or a game of bowls with the boys. Most importantly we still have time for each other. (dinners, picnics etc)
It's not about 'role reversal'. It's about finding a balance that works for the both of you ....... and everyone is different.
2007-09-13 04:08:37
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answered by MickyB 3
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I don't think I'd have the same level of self esteem if I wasn't doing something to earn a living. If my wife had a much higher income, so that I really didn't need to work outside the home, I'd be happy taking care of the children and doing housework. It's still important to have some balance. Neither men nor women should be limited to routine housework.
2007-09-13 04:17:35
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answered by Mover50 2
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I realize that there are traditional 'roles' but come on... I'm a guy... I could never put my wife into the role of maid, cook, etc. She's my partner and we share the responsibilities of managing the house. Sorry, for what I'm going to say, but, the mere fact that you ask this question is just promoting the stereotypical male-female roles. Time to leap forward into equality...
2007-09-13 04:07:38
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answered by confusedsoul 2
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men have their very own stuff to handle. classes do suck- i'm no longer denying that. yet, i'm going to take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are curiously continuously sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so that's not obtrusive. teen men have lots testosterone of their systems that they are in a position to easily be doing homework and without warning, that's like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has occurred to men i understand). additionally, if a dude has a ***** at college, all and sundry laughs at him. If a woman has a leak on her era, the females sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, females get a favorable theory of what it ability to be a woman. There are far extra help communities for women than for men. Boys advance up without fathers, with detrimental portrayals of fellows and fathers in a brilliant form of media (fathers are continuously incompetent while in comparison with the mothers, or merely choose intercourse, and so on) and no preparation in a thank you to truly exchange right into a guy. i'm fortunate sufficient to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the previous college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally diverse. We supplement one yet another's variations. even even with the shown fact that, maximum men are not so fortunate and don't get the solid male community that they want. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, females get drafted too, yet for a 300 and sixty 5 days below boys do. Boys have their very own issues. All issues considered, i could quite be a woman. (additionally, while that's chilly, we can thieve their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling staring at a action picture or taking part in video games, females get to thieve the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they many times make the 1st circulate romantically. And...you get my element. females have it extra useful.)
2016-11-15 03:12:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I wouldn't mind it...I'm not really into domestic chores and stuff like that..but I love kids and I would love to hang out with my son all day...that would be so cool...and if it made my girlfrend or wife happy it would be sooo worth it....I would not even mind greeting her at the door with a martini dressed in something hot...smile...
2007-09-13 05:11:36
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answered by Cheater 2
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i would love to see hubby doing dishes and bathing kids and me get out of the house and play for a while i'd say a week of it and he would be crying to come back. My hubby still beleives the man should work
2007-09-13 04:04:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Some men have experienced this through divorce, or the partner dying, and do a full time job.
2007-09-13 04:04:22
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answered by joe 6
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Yeah I'd love to work and the hubby stay home with the kids. Kid's are more mentally challenging....pay rise!!
2007-09-13 04:04:09
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answered by Anonymous
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