Do u agree or disagree with me that is not approproiate in public ?
2007-09-13 02:42:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I totally agree. I wouldn't allow anyone to scold my children unless they were the mom or dad. Your boyfriend shouldn't be scolding your daughter public or privet. That's your job, tell him it's your way or the highway. Personally I'd kick his sorry butt to the curb, and just make it me and my daughter for a while, but that's just me.
2007-09-16 20:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a child's behavior calls for that. But in today's highly sensitized abuse climate, it should be done as discreetly as possible. Parents need to have a plan. You have to be on the same page. That won't happen unless you sit down and work out how you guys are going to respond to certain situations.
2007-09-13 03:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree, to a point. if its scolding like screaming at the child then yes its not appropriate. but if its telling them what they did wrong, or to protect them from harm then there should be no problem with tht. otherwise the child will never learn how to beahve like a normal functioning person in public.
i cannot tell you how annoying it is when parents just let their child run around crazy and have no control!
2007-09-13 03:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It should be done quietly, but waiting until you return home won't work. She will end up learning that she can throw a tantrum in public and nothing will happen to her. Kids also have short memories. If you wait to get home to scold her she will most likely forget what she is getting in trouble for.
2007-09-13 02:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is going to happen if he or you dont? She is going to be the worst child to take into public! She must learn how to behave when youre out! If it's done in a good manner, not yelling..That really does not work...But, you cant let her get away with everything when out in public
2007-09-13 02:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Momto8gr8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation and the way he reprimands her.Sometime you have to stop a child right then or they'll continue to do it or think it's ridiculous for you to bring it up later when you didnt do it when they first did the act.
2007-09-13 05:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 6 years old, a brief scolding should happen at the time of the event....are you sure your problem isn't that he's nit picking? Why is he the one disciplining your child? Isn't that your job?
2007-09-13 05:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you think it is wrong for your 6 year old child to misbehave in public?? it is our jobs as parents to correct our children immediately so there is no confusion on the child's part later on when we punish them.
2007-09-13 03:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope 6 years of age in a human been is a critical age>the brain in a child that age is like an sponge it absorbs good and bad things and stays there>so if your b/f tells her stupid things she'll react the same way> don't try to reason with her show her>don't yell at her > talk to her>and you will see a different behavior, she will do things to bother you just looking for reaction from her adult examples> that is you.
2007-09-13 03:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by MYINDIGO 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think that if she misbehaves she should be reprimanded, but quietly and discreetly. you don't want to embarrass her, but you also don't want her to think that she can get away with anything in public because you won't scold her
2007-09-13 03:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by The Spazz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋