i stupidly went into a chat room, and ended up watching someone masturbate on webcam. I feel really stupid cos i didnt enjoy it and its out of character for me.
im not normally that type of guy. i feel as if ive let myself down in some way. I wont do it again, but i just feel bad.
im 18 so was it just a silly rush of hormones? do you think im a bad person? i feel bad about it and wont do it again. its so silly.
(please note... im just asking for advice/opinions and am not criticising cyber sex or porn. People are free to do what they want, and i mean no offense to anyone. i just feel really bad for doing it)
2007-09-13 01:36:56 · 21 answers · asked by Answerer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you pressured that person to do that was wrong but if you didnt pressure them and they offered why the hell do you feel bad like you said it was a rush of hormones dont worry just relax if it makes you feel that uncomfortable just dont do it again
2007-09-13 01:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by blondebeachbum77 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No I don't think your a bad person. We all make choices or do things in life we think is right for us at the time then realise it was the wrong choice, The point is you have for-filled a curiosity that you had and did not like it you have already learnt from that. Just don't do it again. Probably a bit deep but everyone does silly things in life don't beat yourself up about it
2007-09-13 09:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by missyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18 you do a lot of experimenting. There's so many different things out there to try so dont feel bad for trying something different. Everyone has different things that turn them on and its something you learn over time. So that wasnt for you dont feel guilty just dont do it again. Youre not a bad person, dont let anyone tell you that you are.
2007-09-13 08:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lucie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
... I won't do it again... Famous last words. I'm not sure if you watched a girl or a guy masturbate... and why is your question addressed to the girls? I don't think you're a bad person, but you do seem to be weak and feminine, and insecure.
2007-09-13 08:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you it isn't in your nature, why did you continue watching? And if you feel bad, why are you sharing this experience with the whole world? People make mistakes and learn from them, that is part of growing up.
2007-09-13 08:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Christelle J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it kinda creepy but you do seem to be sorry for it which i think makes you a better person i think you 18 and a lad so its normal i know couplw 18 lads and prob do the same but your young i mean im 17 like but wouldnt do anything like that but im a girl but it prob was your hormones..x
2007-09-13 08:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by angel with wings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na.... You're fine. Just be glad it wasn't you going to the bar and watching some nasty chick do that in person. You can always turn off your computer and watch some t.v....
Sometimes we need shock value in our lives... A little bit of goofy porn doesn't make you a bad person.
2007-09-13 08:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Amber M 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't beat yourself up over it - you are a healthy curious 18 year old no need to feel bad.
2007-09-13 09:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bernadette M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean honestly i dont think it was that bad.. its kind of in a way is like watching porn except on a webcam? if you feel that about it then never do it again. so just control yourself next time. everyone tries something atleast in their life.
good luckk<3
2007-09-13 08:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by ..CassyyBugg*[♥] --lovesjosh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I guess it was an experience and there was no harm done.
Just make sure you do healthier converstation when on the net.
Good luck.
2007-09-13 08:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋