it started when we were 12 just both of us masturbating in the same bed then she would play with mine and so on. this went on for a couple of years hell we even had a shower together while my aunt her mum was in the house, that was when we were both 14. her mum come in once when we were having sex on her bed, and i mean proper sex, we didnt get caught we pretended to be asleep. even when she got a boyfriend at 15 she would come over to mine and have sex with me. I am 17 now and she is 16 and we still have sex, we need help how to tell everyone or just keep it a secret
2007-09-13 01:36:47 · 13 answers · asked by why_dale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you want to tell everyone!?!? as long as she doesn't get pregnant, enjoy the ride...
2007-09-13 02:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by steve t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No Darling, what you need help with is how to keep away from each other.
No good is going to come out of this since you are now proper teenager and old enough to understand that what you are doing is wrong and can hurt people around you.
Your cousin's boyfriend for a start and your family for a situation which is a complete mess.
You are no more children experimenting, being curious, you too are pretty soon to be able to stand on your own two feet, and your parents could well throw you out of their house.
You either come clean about it, or even better, you walk away and stay away from each other.
No more fooling around. You are blood related and it won't be accepted by your family, or society. It's not right!
2007-09-13 01:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need help,and if your parents were in the house when you two were taking a shower together at 14 and they allowed it they need help to.
2007-09-13 01:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by donnamer66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that is really important is if you have a blood relationship. if she is your 3rd cousin or above then you can legally have a relationship because you share no blood. if it is your 1st cousin or 2nd then you are sickening. if she ever has a child with you by accident then it would most likely have many birth issues and suffer severe retardation.
2007-09-13 01:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by valorandmadness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
via sexually lively, do you mean masturbation or certainly intercourse with a bigger half? At thirteen masturbation is widely used, and sexual emotions are very solid. once you're having intercourse with a bigger half, then be careful, use risk-free practices. you may get STD' or HIV. do not think of,"it won't ensue to me.." get exhilaration from your physique and your sexuality, yet thoroughly. you are able to destroy your life and others additionally while you're careless.
2016-12-16 18:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because both of you guys are legally underage, it's hard to get professional help without letting your parents know.
that aside, the best thing is to get professional help (therapist, sex therapist, etc, ask your family doctor for references and direction). this sort of sexual behavior is not just not normal but also unhealthy.
2007-09-13 01:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you two in love or is it a purely physical thing ? if its in love then you two got problems if its just physical then you two need to discuss it and decide its gotta stop or continue your incestuous relationship and ruin your lives and the lives of your respective partners.
2007-09-13 01:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by thinker_belle* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I've never seen/heard something like this! Unbelievable!
2007-09-13 01:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by The Boy Next Door 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........umm i think you two need help yeah. Of course youre people are gonna flip when they find out. so be ready for that.
2007-09-13 01:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. is all i can say. keep that secret to yourself. that will devastate your parents.
2007-09-13 01:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋