but shes got a boyfriends she cant leave? What should i do?
2007-09-13 01:35:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not as black and white, as it seems
We've shared loads of really romantic nights, and shes said so many things to me that indicate she likes me alot...
2007-09-13 01:42:05 · update #1
Right I'll try and explain as fully as i can..
She makes me feel Alive, Like i have a place, Meaning...in this world,
Something i haven't felt before....she takes me as i am. and respects my dreams and thoughts.....
She says she really cares for me, and that she'd love to be with me, just her and her bf have a long history, been together for 3years ish,
2007-09-13 01:48:21 · update #2
Use the "force", Luke!
Sorry, I couldn't help myself.
Seriously, just about every guy in the history of mankind has had to deal with this issue at one time or another.
You have two choices.
Challenge the boyfriend or wait until they break up. Never leave it up to the girl. They want to be fought over.
2007-09-13 01:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucka!!!!!
You are being plaid. 'to be young and stupid again' we have all been there.
Whenever entering a new relationship take note of how the person leaves their last relationship because you will be that guy/girl next.
You can deny it and pretend I'm wrong but my post will come ringing back into your head when I'm correct; and I will be correct.
Why are you nailing some other dudes girl anyway?
My honest advise...no joke.
Nail it one more time and when you done slap her on the azz and say thanks but I'm outta here. I'm not staying with some two timing chic. Leave and don't look back (you have to mean it).
She will be insulted a little angry but mostly intrigued. She will then dump her boyfriend for you. If she doesn't you where just a booty call anyway.
Remember she cheated on her current boyfriend she will cheat on you so do you really want it anyway. if it where me I would nail it one more time and never look back.
2007-09-13 01:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, are you going to settle for a love triangle.
Of course she can leave him if YOU are the one she really wants. So, she has to make up her mind.
The best way for you to help her, is to give her some space.
Leave her alone and have no contact with her whatsover, and that should help her decide if that's the way she feels better, if it's what she wants in the future and what is worse, to stay with a boyfriend she doesn't want or you she says she has feelings for.
Good luck.
The truth is, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so there's no excuse to want to share a person who says she loves you!
2007-09-13 01:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously if she's cheating on her boyfriend with you she's not the most trustworthy person. If she loved you as much as you love her then she wouldn't have a problem leaving her boyfriend. She say's she can't leave him I find that hard to believe, it sounds like she want's the best of both worlds and you may find you are the backup guy. Save yourself the broken heart, find a girl who thinks you're the only one for her and be happy.
P.S If this girl is happy to cheat WITH you, what makes you so sure she won't cheat ON you.
2007-09-13 01:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Walks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being intimate with her. She's using you.
Tell her how you feel, flat out don't hide anything. Tell her that if she chooses you you'll be good to her, but if she chooses him no more you. I'm not saying stop being friends.
If you can't think of it because you're emotionally attached at least think of it this way. If she's fooling around with you while she's with someone else who else is she fooling around with? Or who else is her bf fooling around with? Every time you sleep with someone it's like sleeping with all the people they have. So unless you're looking for an STD stop. Condoms aren't 100% safe, so there's no way to know what you're getting.
2007-09-13 01:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a moment where it is just you, her and her boyfriend in a private place. Look her in the eye and said "Who do you choose me or him! (pointing at her boyfriend)" She gets nerveous and keep look her at the eye with a manly but soft look. If she can't decide bet on a race to settle this with her boyfriend. Or if the boyfriend intimidates you, don't be scared keep the pressure. Keep telling her romantic words and moments of togetherness. If her boyfriend gets mad It's time for Matrix fighting! Beat him up!
2007-09-13 01:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by The Boy Next Door 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is that she can't leave. Everyone can leave a relationship. I think she does not want to leave. There is nothing that you can do. Move on and if one day she decides that she wants to leave the current guy and be with you than so be it. But, if she does not, then you need to find someone that is not in a relationship. I would not want to be with her, she obviously can not stay faithful in a relationship and what makes you think that if she leaves him, that she won't sleep around on you?
2007-09-13 01:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is like the forbidden apple u cant take something that doesnt belong 2 u but if she is really in love wid u she will find a million ways 2 leave her bf
2007-09-13 01:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by hero the free-booter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her,if she loves you why cant she leave him,honestly i think that she loves you but maybe loves him just as much as she loves you or maybe more,or she is scared of him,either way you must help her,help her fall in love with you more or help her to confront you about why she cant leave him, i cant give you anymore advice because i dont no you or her or enough about the problem but good luck
p.s i could agree with the others and say if she cheats with you what makes you think she wont cheat on you but i think if you love someone enough then you should trust them,i think this girl truly loves youso i think you should trust her because even though she hasnt broken up with him if she does love him as much as she loves you think of it this way,at least your the one that she risked the other one she loves for...trust her and if you start going out and she cheats then at least you know you tried and you can learn from your mistakes
2007-09-13 01:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing this girl you think she wont do the same to you. Shes having sex with you and this other guys dosent that make you feel like your getting someones sloppy seconds. yould you drink out of the same glass that this other guy drank from i would not. stop the relationship your only going to get hurt i know sex is good but dude its not worth all the crap that may come from this relationship. not trying to be mean guys but its the truth. stay strong and good luck
2007-09-13 01:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋