my friend is going out with a guy and she wants to show him she loves him but not sleep with him. how does she do that?
2007-09-13 00:17:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be tender, be kind, be loving, be feminine and give him space. He'll love her, but she must be firm in her decision to not sleep with him. Trust me, he'll respect her even more.
2007-09-13 00:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a guy that also love you, I would not be expecting you to have sex until you were ready. Also you can be attentive to other things, be understanding of his problems and be supportive of his job and his interest's, hobbies etc... Cook for him or cook together with him. If he pushes you , then , he is either immature , or just wants you for sex.
Good luck
2007-09-13 00:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well loving do not mean sex, sex is an indepent feeling , any stranger can have, without knowing, but love is just feeling, & joining chain between the 2. So if she loves him doe not mean she agrees with him at all levels, she may refuse yet agree, on other hand prostitue will say yes to anything but yet not love u. so agreeing does not mean love.
2007-09-13 00:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook him a great meal complete with candlelight and romantic music.After dinner I am sure she can figure out other ways to complete the night without sleeping with him.
2007-09-13 00:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kev L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it particularly is the warmth. adult adult males are super warmers. additionally, i think of on some ranges this is a "risk-free practices" situation, like a blanky once you have been a newborn. i might recommend filling up a 2 liter bottle with warm faucet water, and curling up with it, on the brink of your abdomen. which will simulate the warmth of yet another physique. additionally, i might manage the pillows alongside with the warm water bottle, to be in the spot that your bf may well be. stable success.
2016-12-13 07:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by colmenero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dude: "Chad Michael Smith, I love you, but I will not sleep with you."
2007-09-13 00:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself becoz being yourself is the best way to do it.
Love is being done, not shown. Try offering something to him and do things he like. You must know that love is a sort of give-and-take so try it out.
If still unable, shout i love
I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-13 00:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont confuse Lust and Love.... Sleeping with someone is Lust not love.........
There are plenty of ways to express your love and compassion...........Lust is not the only thing.
you can show love through your care and concern......
And if that guy wants to sleep with her.
Mark my words the day she sleeps with that guy...that guy is gonna leave her!!!!!!!!!Please ask her to take precaution and dont confuse things(especially Lust and love)
2007-09-13 03:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be vocal & tell him what she feels about sleeping with him.Telling him straight might cause some heartbreak but that is the best way out.
2007-09-13 00:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u right its dipend on that guy thinking some people find love only in feelings, eyes and some u know they find only taste of girl from that way
2007-09-13 00:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Rimple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋