it seems like men only get into a relationship with me because they wanna sleep with me. right now im married to a professional boxer and he is really abusive, before him i was with a famous rapper and he was abusive it makes me think that there is something wrong with me. I am beautiful, intelligent , i make my own money, im very sweet and passionate i dont understand why noone appreciates me what can i be doing wrong.
2007-09-13 00:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by Saraiya B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason why you pick the wrong men is because you are attracted to the typical bad guys! You need to get some self confidence and leave your current abusive relationship and date a nice guy. There are some nice guys that are really interesting people that can give you all the excitment of what a bad guy gives you without treating you like dirt. Give them a chance
Just think outside the square when it comes to dating someone.
2007-09-13 00:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong w/ you at all... maybe you should find someone who is not so famous =) seems to me many famous men have this huge ego problem... rappers tend to have an anger problem... so do boxers... change the type of famous man you hang around... I, if I were famous, would not want to be around actors. Sometimes they fall for someone they are in a movie with. Try a basball guy =). They travel alot, but, I am sure there are faithful baseball men out there! =). I don't know... it just seems maybe it's best to try to find a regular average joe =) good luck! =) and don't settle for less than you deserve =)
2007-09-13 00:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It takes two to have a relationship.
You either go to the guy or he comes to you. Having said that, you don't have to stay in a relationship once you realize that it's not going to work.
You seem to like attention; The attention that comes from dating someone famous. You like the glamour.
But possibly you are going into relationship with people who love themselves so much that they don't have much love left to share with you.
What's more those two guys are into a very active, demanding and obviously violent or stressing job.
So, what else are they going to be able to offer you??
It might be an idea to go away from all that glitz and keep things more down to earth and look more for feelings than fame.
Good luck.
2007-09-13 00:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you need to refer to Christian Carter's insights (check him out). You are probably in those situations where you show vulnerability to the men, or let them get away with abusing your goodness from the word go, that is why they keep doing it to you. Also check on how long it took you to heal from the previous relationship, because if you didnt take a proper time out, you replay the same motions in new relationships. Be positive, optimistic, and dont entertain those who trample over you..not once, not ever!
2007-09-13 00:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by aminimungu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from what i can imagine, a boxer is SUPPOSED to be abusive...because its in their nature ( sorry, not meant to offend anyone, but its my personal opinion )
I dont think there is anything wrong with you....just need to be cautious in your future relationships.
Learn to judge people...... give your relationship some time before getting married....
and the bottomline is men can never be as caring and as passionate as you can be for them..... so you need to bring down your expectations a bit too (sorry, but its true )
2007-09-13 00:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are allowing them to treat you like that. You need to learn to be stronger. Get out of that abusive relationship and find you a nice man that will treat you like a princess!
2007-09-13 00:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have to recognize the signs early on in the relationship. It's a pattern you're having, to stop the pattern, change the way you feel about yourself. ove yourelf and believe you deserve the BEST. The rest will follow.
2007-09-13 00:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Michelic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simple, women like you attract bad men! you should realise what thier like then leave! but nooo you stay, that's wy you end up with the losers because your pathetic and stay while other women would leave. ITS YOU
2007-09-13 00:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it only your view,now your not too bad, let it be. Going on your way.
2007-09-13 00:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by saimoe07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me your dreaming
2007-09-13 00:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by luckycobalt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋