We have been together for about 6 months and sometimes we see people talking about us and we see alot of black guys giving hard looks...Now my girl is light skin and very beautiful...she was Miss Black OU in college....and I'm a good looking white guy...but people aren't talking about what we look like they are talking about us being a mixed couple or something like that....We are a great looking couple, but when is all the talking and looking going to stop?
2007-09-12 17:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by tray wingo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may depend a lot on the community you live in. It sounds as though the two of you cannot travel through your community together without getting a lot of notice. But there are places in the country where you would get less attention. Interracial couples still tend to look atypical in most places in the US and the atypical for any reason will get a lot of extra looks. It might not ever stop. Or if you live in a small community, it's possible that after awhile everyone would know you two were together and would be used to it. The hurdles could be a lot more difficult than looks. In this country most blacks and whites live in somewhat separate social groups. If that is the case where you and she grew up and live now, then consider how much time you have spent in each others family and social groups. How is that going?
2007-09-12 17:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might never stop.
But you can find a city that has no problems with that kind of thing. San Francisco, NYC and most urban cities in Europe and Brazil all have zero issues or it's simply commonplace.
Gay couples get it rough too.
2007-09-13 00:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks man, **** those people that look at you two.
just remember that you have a beautiful women and that they dont.
if anyone has a problem with that...**** 'em!
2007-09-13 00:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Greshymn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋