Adoption? later on in life but should i?<3?

Question

Later (about 10-15yrs) down the road, i want to adopt a little
(6-8yr) african boy. Im prety sure i dnt my own kid(birth i mean)
First: Should i later adopt this so-called boy,: do u like the idea?
Second: how much would it be: estimated?
Third: what are some key steps in adopting...?
(calling them,getting a spot how early)?

Im almost dead sure i wan to adopt an african boy!

i wan to adopt a kid over there because we always adopt over here. and they are so poor over there. i am going to give it such a good life spoil it rotten too!
i really think itz a good idea, but finally do u?

Answer 1

What about a needy child in our country?
It sounds very trendy for you to say that you want to adopt a child from Africa.

Adopting a child that age is wonderful, but you need to be awear that at that age they might of seen so much in their life that they can't develop emotionally or deal with the change in their place in the world.

I adopted a 10 month old little girl. She is now 27 years old.
She was a difficult child. Horrendious teenager. Now she is an adult. She and I are very close. But, I was well awear of what might be ahead for me as a parent.

To me you sound like you are thinking about adopting a puppy.

Keep up the research. I don't mean to say you shouldn't do it. I am just saying that this is a serious thing to do.

Look online for information.

I wish you well.

Answer 2

Trust me when you find the man of your dreams, having a child with him will be something you want to do. You'll most likely want to give birth and he'll most likely want to be the blood father.

I think it's awesome you want to adopt a kid and hopefully your mind doesn't change. I just think that it will change once you are a bit older.