do men really like strippers? or does it depend on the man? my fiance hates them and wont even have any at his bachelor party im concerned is this normal?!
2007-09-12 16:26:20 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always thought what men found most appealing about strippers were the fact that they were willing to take their clothes off so easily. just an easy peice. but then whats the difference in a stripper and porn? my fiance will watch porn but not strippers. isnt it basically the same thing? in fact the 'actresses' should b even less appealling than strippers. (im not opting for an argument just a thought what do u all think of it?)
2007-09-12 16:45:25 · update #1
I have three kids and find Strippers repulsive ( the kids part was to twart the you know what comments ) Most strippers are usually caught up in really bad affairs and are not exectly the most desirable. I am not saying all strippers are that way but most. After that the whole idea of a stripper is to phantacise about them and you. Some guys go beyond sex and think about the aspect of love and realize that this person shows their body for money and that is a major turn off to some guys. Just imagine if it was your man up on stage with all these girls screaming and yelling and trying to touch and EEEEEghhhhhhhh I coud never have anything to do with them again let alone love them enough to marry them!
2007-09-12 16:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by me32994 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not like strippers. It's true that I can't help but find them attractive to look at, but their lifestyles and demeanor tend to make them the kind of people I do not want to associate with, and I will not be having any at my bachelor party, whenever that may be. Although I'm sure my friends will try and take me to a strip club, and I have no desire to go there, either. I'm sure that there are men who love strippers, and I am sure that there are strippers out there who are actually very nice people who do not give "special attention" and live very normal lives outside of the club, I'm just the kind of guy that has no interest in strippers or strip clubs, myself.
2007-09-13 00:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Noah L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...strippers are appealing, or are they a peeling? Anyway. Yes, strippers are definitely eye candy, but some guys can't stand them because they're low class entertainment and take their clothes off for money.
2007-09-12 23:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man. A lot of men need to be intellectually and emotionally stimulated as well as physically or visually in order to be aroused, and find that strippers do not satisfy this need because doing something for a living that is trashy and of low moral character (taking your clothes off for a living? come on!) is not attractive. Men with more traditional relationships or who value someone based on their personality and character in addition to just how they look tend to not be as attracted to strippers as men who are just superficial and impressed by appearance only. Also, some men are just shy and would be embarassed to be put in a situation where the strippers would come onto him in front of others. In my opinion, your fiancee's behavior is not abnormal but you should be happy that your fiancee does not show interest in them as they are tacky, and he sounds to be of superior moral character in rejecting them. He sounds like a very grounded peson who would not be likely to be tempted by other women once you two are married. As you can tell, I don't care much for strippers . . . they might look okay, but some men need more than that to be attracted to someone and a lot of us are not just looking for one-night stands but to be with women we actually respect.
2007-09-12 23:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks youll get pissed off. alot of guys dont have "strippers" at a bachelor party, but if not them they usuall get really good looking girls that play games and stuff, like adult games. could also be comfort level with whover is going to his bachelor party.
2007-09-12 23:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i ever had a bachelor party (and i have been married) i would not want a stripper --- as people i have no problems as a party entertainment no thank you
2007-09-12 23:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are pretty gross. Some are nice to look at...from far away...as long as they do not touch me...but yes, pretty gross.
2007-09-12 23:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋