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Question

I am in college and I have one of those myspace thingys online. I started a convo with this guy cause I know his best friend and they were both going to the same college I was. After having a small convo with him he later makes a move and sends me a message and was like call me sometime. Of course I was like that is soo cheezy so I dont really pay much attention, but I didnt stop talking to him cause of that. After about 3 weeks I finally see this guy in person and it was kinda awkward meeting him because of his unespected move online. I realized that I may actually kinda like him after meeting him (im wierd I kno). Well one night I decided to actually call him just to get to kno him. We talked for like 15 min cause we were both tired.After that I saw him a couple more times and had small convos with him but nothing too exciting really happened. Is it ok if I keep calling him to get to know him more? Does he realize that I may actually like him? And how do I know if he still likes me?

Answer 1

Phone conversations are fine, but it would be better (and easier) to meet him in person. You could meet somewhere neutral and, if you're hesitant, make it somewhere very public and don't go anywhere with him later.

He wouldn't have asked you to call if he didn't have an interest in you. He probably assumes you're interested in him as well. But one of you needs to take it to the next step, and since it sounds like he doesn't have your number, it has to be you. Get to know him better - either online, on the phone, or better yet in person.

Answer 2

Talking is really the best way to get to know someone. If he doesn't blow you off, then he is still interested in talking to you. After a while, if you want to do more than talk, just say, "You know, I really like talking to you. Would you like to catch this Friday's concert with me?"