When your an adult does that mean that nobody care about you anymore? I got the suspicion and Im truth be told kind of scared of being an adult.....is it fun....I mean or is it so stressful that you can't have fun?
2007-09-12 10:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can remember worrying about being an adult too and it's quite unsettling, isn't it? The fact is, you'll just grow into it so gradually you won't even notice it's happened! People will definitely continue to care about you and you'll also have fun! Sometimes things can get a bit stressful but I expect you already have stressful times in your life now and deal with them? As an adult, you can still ask for help and advice if you need it. You're not expected to know all the answers! An interesting thing that you also become aware of is that, inside, you still feel so much younger. I'm 50 and I still feel like I did when I was about 18 - I've still got the same sort of sense of humour, enjoy the same things but have also discovered more things that interest me. Being adult isn't very different from how you are now. It's just higher numbers!
It's going to be fine for you. It really will be and I wish you lots of fun and fulfillment for the future.
2007-09-12 10:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being an adult is great. You are in charge of your own life. You can have lots of fun as long as you take responsibility for your actions.
Your family and friends will still care about you. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself.
It can be stressful at times but look at all the adults around they have made it and so can you.
2007-09-12 10:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by kimco10155 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered about that too. Guess it's a different kind of caring. I've noticed that it always seems more important if something bad happens to a child...more important than if the same thing happens to an adult. But someday that child will be an adult. It will still be the same person. Will people still be as concerned about that person as they were when he/she was a child? Just like "baby Jessica" who fell in the well almost 20 years ago...do people still care about her as much as they did when she was a child? I think what happens is that when you become an adult...it's your purpose to care about the children and take care of them. I think that's kinda what being an adult is all about...Maybe if you've had people to care about you as a child, you'll know how to care about children when you grow up.And that's a good thing.
2007-09-12 10:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Deenie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a different kind of stressful. It's better than school but it can be more isolating than school.
We don't have to worry about being picked on at work, or if we ware the right clothes,. We get to the stage where we don't give a crap about what others think but we also get so engrossed in kids, careers, marriage that a lot of adults forget to have fun and take time out of their day for themselves and their Friends.
Life is what you make it honey take charge.
Don't wait for life to grab you, go and get it.
2007-09-12 10:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by english_sweetie2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. Being an adult allows you to make choices. Those choices can be boring or fun. That's your decision not your parents. The other point I want to make is that make sure that you do well in school, go to college and make a living. Then and only then can you afford yourself the opportunity to have fun.
2007-09-12 10:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 11:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you have people who care about you. You get married, raise a family and they love you. ALso if you have brothers and sisters they love you too. Yes i m sure you can have fun as an adult, Its all how you look at things and make the best of them. good luck.
2007-09-12 10:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how you choose to live your life to be 100% honest.
When you're an adult you're in control of your life for the first time, that includes how YOU choose to react to things, and what responsibilities you want to take on.
Don't let anyone make those choices for you and you'll be fine, I can almost guarantee it.
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2007-09-12 10:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult hood is gradual process .
once you cross adolescent period ,you are adult.
for any adult activity you need decide your self
confidently.Freedom means abillity to understand right thing ok
2007-09-12 11:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by yogeshdave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn things as you get older whether you notice it or not. You make it how you want it to be basically. Nothing to worry about just grow up and you'll see.
2007-09-12 10:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋