PURELY FOR MY PEACE OF MIND I WANT TO FINDOUT WHERE MY ADOPTED CHILDREN ARE SO THAT I KNOW THEY ARE SOMEWHERE SAFE & HAPPY INSTEAD OF JUST ANYWHERE. BECAUSE THEY ARE UNDER 18 I AM FINDING THIS HARD TO FIND OUT. IF ANYONE HAS ANY IDEAS TO HELP ME WITH THIS QUEST I'D BE VERY GRATEFUL.
REPLY PLEASE TO - molemolly@yahoo.co.uk
2007-09-12 04:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by molemolly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adoption
Molly are you in the UK? Aren't records open over there?
Sorry, I can't help you much with this specific topic, but I hope you are able to find out where your children are so that you can put your mind and heart at ease. I can't imagine how insane I would be if I didn't KNOW my children were safe.
There is a member of www.adultadoptees.org who is very good with searching, I suggest you join up (we are also very welcoming of natural moms & have a space for them to support each other). Perhaps Gershom can help you with resources where you live.
Good luck, I can't even imagine how terrible this must be for you. (((hugs)))
2007-09-12 05:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lillie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you are in the UK once your children turn 18 they should get all of their information ( if my memory serves me right )at which point, leave a good trail for them to find you, list your number, put out newspaper ads, go to the agency and leave a contact preference form do what you can!! they will find you if they look!!
also, really want to extend a huge amount of sympathy to the corrupt govt. scandals going on over there and removing children for no reason, i've been following the media reports, the protests and videos on YouTube i am really sad about this. so sorry to hear, i pray you weren't a victim to it.
2007-09-12 06:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gershom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gersh, and also can't believe what I see going on in the UK!
soulofadoption.com also has some bio-moms from the UK if I remember....
if you just post that you're looking for that support, someone will guide you to the right people!
I really hope you link up with your children!!
2007-09-12 10:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by rox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? i am in the united states. do you know the name of the agency your kids went to? you can always ask them. that is how i found my birth family. i called the agency i was placed at and they searched for me.
2007-09-12 07:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can get talking to lawyer and he will know whom to contact and help you
2007-09-12 15:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋