I love God, and want to spend eternity with him, but i'm at the end. Can't take much more of this pain. Will god forgive me? I have no one, nothing and i'm very sad. Why does God make some of us suffer and others so happy? I love and praise him all day everyday. I do my best to be a great person. Why has he taken my family with him... and left me here to suffer? Why does he not hear my screams for guidance..help...food...shelter? Please pray for me.
2007-09-12 04:19:59 · 20 answers · asked by hopeless 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sure, Dude...
GO FOR IT.
(After All, "Jesus Saves"!!!)
2007-09-12 04:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
I don't know if you will spend eternity with God if you take your own life. I've read and heard that you won't and I've read that you will, depending on your faith. I don't know which one to believe. I also don't know why some people suffer more...why God allows it. All I know is my own experience. I suffer depression often. I've been diagnosed bipolar type I. I've wanted and tried to end my life many times. Right now, I'm feeling ok. It got better. Just please keep trying. Try to find the beautiful things about life. Do the things you enjoy, listen to the music that moves you, involve yourself in something that helps people. These things helped me. I hope you feel better soon. I will pray for you.
2007-09-12 11:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear you have lost your family. That must be the hardest thing in the world to bear. But, let me remind you that even in the worst of circumstances, God is able to bring about something way better than we could ever imagine, if we'll trust Him beyond what we can see. You may not understand why God is allowing you to suffer, but when you can't understand, that is the most perfect time to practice trust. God is developing trust and perseverance in your life, and sometimes growth is painful. Hang on and let God do in you and through you what He wants to accomplish. There are thousands of people who have come through excruciating tragedies and though not denying the pain, they were greatly rewarded in the end for their endurance. if you have a Bible, read James 1:1-4.
2007-09-12 11:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok.
Time for a reality Check.
You have the most precious thing available. LIFE
If your life is unbearable, then you have to find a way to change it. You are the only one who can do that. Living as a slave to circumstances SUCKS. You know this first hand. So why not change, take a chance, risk a move, look for a different Job, travel.
ANY THING is better than suicide, and you have nothing to loose at this point. Why not make a difference in someone elses life, and stop focusing on yours, or ending it.
If you have a chance to make someone else a happier person, why not do that rather than killing yourself.
2007-09-12 11:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by ɹɐǝɟsuɐs Blessed Cheese Maker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
suicide is a sin. the only sin you can not be forgiven for. once you have committed suicide you are no longer able to ask for forgiveness. God will take you in His time in His way. Now hang in there ok, I am here I will be your friend, lets discuss this. I too am basically in the same shoes you are I want to go to heaven right now too, but my room isn't ready yet and I have to wait, so do you! There's some reason we are still here and we will find out soon enough, maybe you are here to help me and I am here to help you. Heck what have we got to lose anyway! Talk with me!
2007-09-12 11:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by bluebonnets1952 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to someone that can actually help you. god helps those that help themselves. talk is cheap and if you feel this suicidal, you need professional help. people will tell you that you will burn in hell. we dont know what is going to happen exactly. we might have some clues, god only knows who his chosen ones will be, not anyone alive today including the highest of clergy can tell for certain. I say to you, keep praising and exalting, but at the same time get help, it sounds like you are not too happy. goood luck and god bless you.
2007-09-12 11:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by KARMA IS IT THOU? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the book of Job in the Bible. He to suffered, way more than you. In the end, God rewarded Job with ten times better than what he had before. God may be testing your faith also. Murder is sin, if you kill yourself, you commit sin. You can't be forgiven of a sin, until the sin is commited. But, if you murder yourself, you can't ask for forgiveness, you'll be dead, so therefore, you will die in sin, and go to hell.
2007-09-12 11:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah sweetie... I desperately wish that I could help you right now, but I know that the only one who can help you is God.
It never says once in the bible that those who take their own lives will go to hell, much to the surprise of many - because this is a common belief to discourage suicide, but its true.
But please, please don't resort to suicide... It's not the answer. I know you feel like there is nowhere else to go, but please don't permanently answer a temporary problem. I pray in Jesus' name that God will keep you safe from all harm [as it says in Psalm 91:1, "He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will take rest in the shadow of the Almighty, whose power no foe can withstand"] and I pray that God will supply all your needs and that you won't live in lack [ephesians 3:20 "He is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly, far over and above all that we [dare] ask or think [infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, hopes, or dreams]"..
Please hang on... please don't give up yet.
2007-09-12 11:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have me. I'm here praying for you right now. So now you can't say you have nobody. You are going through a very dark and difficult time in your life, but you will come out of it. God is always there for you. He does not want you to kill yourself, He has a plan for you.
Please don't despair, I am praying for you.
2007-09-12 11:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Catholicgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot suffer your own pain, how can you expect to be worthy of God's Love. The saying goes, "Suffering is Cleansing." Escape from suffering only means more suffering. Be strong and courageous and stop blaming God for your own problems. God has given you LIFE and the story you have placed upon it has only changed your view of what "IS".
2007-09-12 11:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If I were atheistic, I'd have killed myself long ago. I have no faith in humanity or this world in general.
However, the thing you must realize is, your life could be worse. You do not suffer as an Iraqi, fearful of suicide bombings or torture at the hands of foreigners. You are not paralyzed, and have the ability to type at your computer. You are likely not blind, as you have to be able to see to view the answers on screen.
Life here is hell. However, it is even worse for many others. Keep these in mind. Don't give up just yet.
2007-09-12 11:24:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋