I met this guy online and we instantly connected. We could talk about anything and everything for hours. A few months later we exchanged pics. and set up a time and place to meet. I am not at all physically attracted to this guy and he wants to meet up again. In the past, I would just tell him the truth that I wasn't attracted to him, but all that has gotten me in the past is hatred. I'm interested to hear how some of you would react to this.
2007-09-12 03:16:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly if you connect with him mentally, i would give him a chance and see if eventually you become physically attracted in some way. I wouldnt just turn my head to it if you guys get along well
2007-09-12 03:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it may be very uncomfortable at times, honesty is usually the best way to go. At least then at the end of the day you will not have a guilty conscience. You may end up being disliked for a little while but you will still be an honest person.
2007-09-12 03:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by twyyn2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help it if you are not attracted... I think that it is a big factor when we are INSTANTLY attracted to another person...
If this guy "hates" you because you aren't that into him, well, it's his problem.
Don't put yourself into a relationship situation where you'd be miserable. do what is best for YOU... after all it is your life.
and take care.
2007-09-12 03:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are not everything. yes they help, but if you really like this guy and you connect, i say give him a chance. Good luck <3
2007-09-12 03:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by twol3londe4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened whn you met? If there was no physical attraction, shouldn't it have ended there?
2007-09-13 11:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably a 300lbs man w/ no hair i wouldn't meet up w/ him i think that is super dangerous!!! bad idea
2007-09-12 03:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋