So my crush found out I like him because one of my friends told him. He has never had a girlfriend. Whenever he sees me, he smiles and waves hi but Im too afraid to approach him now so I havent. But he hasnt approached me either which I see as a bad sign. Theres a certain TV show we watch together and he seemed excited for it but then I found out through another friend he wont be able to watch it because of this club (my crush obviously forgot about that) and my crush never came up to me and said "hey I cant do it" which I also see as a bad sign.
2007-09-12 02:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have answered your own Question it is time to move on and forget about this one ~~
2007-09-12 02:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever happen to thing that you never approaching him is a bad sign in his eyes? No, no you didn't, because apparently the world revolves around you. Newsflash, it doesn't. If it did, the economy would be shambles, I'd have already inflicted numerous bodily injuries in attempted kamikaze missions to destroy the world as well. But anyway, back to my original point. Why are you basing a decision on tv show? I just mean it sounds so logical, why haven't I based all my relationship decisions on tv shows? Because tv shows are fictions and in no way should govern or have any influence on a relationship. So, no it's not time to give up, grow yourself a backbone and talk to him face to face. Question answered in sarcastic style. Mission Accomplished.
2007-09-12 09:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the risk and approach him. If this crush is important to you, it is worth the risk. If you choose to allow the situation to stay as is, you will never know what might happen in the future; furthermore, every day will be just the same until one of you decides to move on. You best solution is to tell your crush how you feel. It's risky, but you will have a better clue whether he feels the same way.
2007-09-12 09:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl, it happens to the best of us. when i was 18 i had a uge cruch on a guy (20) but you see the difference here is that i knew what kind of person he was i knew which places he liked to go to i even knew his kind if friends. so i also had the hi bey dilema with him until this once i faced him and asked him what his problem was that he could not see that i liked him, believe me me was not suprised at all coz he liked me too. so we hit it off and we were dating since then up until last year. so all i can say is that you need to do someting about it or you'll never know what coul have being, well you don't have to go the way that i did but someting needs to be done coz boys can be really slow so push him a bit. good luck and if it don't work out then it's his loss not yours!!!
2007-09-12 09:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Moby'g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn that friend of yoz or was it on purpose to help u! Anyway, i know the feeling, u just wish he'd...maybe get out of his mind and just hold you so tight and assure u that yo the only one he's been dying for. but, i've heard people say, the feeling is usually mutual. Probably he's looking for way of, you know... (u wish)
I understand one thing though, u have a need for clarity on how he feels. Two either or options; if yo pride is so important to u, just hold yo peace, watch and pray that one day he feels the same way. or if the crush has overshadowed the pride, ask him out to icecream and tell him everything! Good luck
2007-09-12 09:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to give up? you never even tried so ehat are you giving up. BE BRAVE ask him for dinner or something you dont have to tell him everything you feel save it for later just see if he is willing to go out. it is a start
2007-09-12 09:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up 2 u 2 give up on him but dnt giv up on love i was about 2 giv up on love but den met one of da nicest gals u'll meet. try not to get urself down be happy :D
2007-09-12 09:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we like somebody it is always difficult to imagine that somebody probably doesn't fill the same...YES GIVE UP! YOU WILL MEET YOUR SOIL MATE!
2007-09-12 09:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by lbelfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you just need to talk to him....which you already know so i dont know why you are asking this question....
he is obviouly shy too....so go talk to him, he will not bite and you will be happy you did....
2007-09-12 09:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up let him know exactly how u feel and who u are and goodluck
2007-09-12 09:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by d the lepricon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋