OK, so my girlfriend is constantly checking my phone - looking through my call list, picking it up when I get a call to see who it is, and I'm pretty sure she has even gone so far as to listen to a voicemail here and there (I sometimes will have messages listed as "skipped" that I've never heard before). I haven't given her any reason to do this - there are never any calls from anyone buy my parents, brother, guy friends. What should I do?????
2007-09-12 01:55:21 · 4 answers · asked by wh_johnny_05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are about trust. And you are going to have to ask her to give you some. She may have been cheated on in the past. It will take time if she really takes the question to heart so you will have to work with her. If she does not take the question to heart you are going to have this drama all the time and its going to get on your nerves to a point where you may have to say good bye. Give it time. And talk with her.
2007-09-12 02:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend did this to me, I would FLIP OUT... confront your girlfriend, and tell her to respect your privacy...
You haven't been doing anything wrong... maybe she's just a little insecure, but if you're not getting calls from random girls then there is nothing she should be worried about
Good luck hun!
2007-09-12 09:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me one time, and I told her that it i was only going to say it once: do not go through my phone. I wasnt trying to intimidate her or anything but i was pretty mad, she had no right to do that. I mean we had only met that day in person. We had been talkin online a couple months but thats still wrong.
2007-09-12 09:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and tell her to stop checking your phone. If she's having doubts about you then talk to her about it. She should respect your privacy.
2007-09-12 09:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋